THE ATTORNEYS OF ITACA AND THE EPIC OF THE ENFORCEMENT THAT CANNOT BE SILENT
The only ones Sfranta never gets angry with are the suitors, we remember are the approximately one hundred nobles of Ithaca who in Homer's Odyssey insistently court Penelope during the absence of Ulysses, but that in the modern version clerical-rainbow instead they court Odysseus and ignore Penelope altogether.
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Let lobby clerical-rainbowit is preserved by avoiding direct exposure. He doesn't act openly, does not take responsibility for the most controversial decisions. He prefers to operate through third parties, using subjects that act as a screen, by performers, from expendable tools. They are the classics straw men they useful idiots: figures in charge of doing what the lobbyists decide, once the illusion of counting has been instilled in them, of belonging to the clerical power and of being able to gain some recognition from it. Here is a sample of what was just said in the image below:
Photo: graphic composition containing textual extracts reproduced without indication of author or source, as in Sfranta’s style.
In the clerical world, these subjects are often clericalized lay people who enjoy, just as such, of an operational freedom that others cannot afford. They are the ones who intervene where i clerics-rainbowthey do not intend - or cannot - expose themselves directly: they delegitimize, they offend, they report, they accuse, they give rise to proceedings without real foundation, aware that they will not produce any concrete results. What matters is not winning, but carry out disruptive actions, intimidate. This is the goal.
They act convinced that they matter and to have weight within the clerical power structure; in reality they are used precisely because they are replaceable, exposed and expendable. Reduced to mere executive tools, they are destined to absorb the brunt of the darkest deeds, those with whom i clerical-rainbowthose who pilot them do not intend to get their hands dirty. They think they're leading, while in reality they are direct, in the manner of the worst subordinate servants.
This mode of action is not episodic, but structural. I clerics-rainbowthus maintaining a safe distance: they don't sign, they don't speak, they do not appear. It is always the one who exposes himselfuseful idiot, to whom the dirty work is entrusted. It is the same mechanism that is found in every organization that intends to exercise control without openly assuming the moral and legal weight. Responsibility remains invisible; the action, instead, it is very concrete.
Alongside this first category, a second one emerges, more aggressive and dangerous: the one that the late Paolo Poliused to call, with unrivaled theatrical precision, the “sfrante”.
Clericalized to maximum power and characterized by bitter militancy, vindictive and sometimes openly violent on a relational level, the Sfranta, instead of building a dignified present for a mature future, he prefers to spend his days attacking his own social whoever decides on the spot: today the members of the National Association of Magistrates defined by her as "the worst of criminals" as well as "para-mafia association", tomorrow the Minister of Justice accused of being "colluded" and "clown", follows a well-known magistrate referred to as a "convict" and "more criminal than all the others", the day after tomorrow he throws flames on the members of a dicastery of the Holy See indicated as "illiterates" and "idiots", the President of the Journalists' Association defined as a "vulgar longshoreman", one of the most famous Italian journalists and television hosts branded as "the most vomiting" and "repressed bully", to follow up with the plumbers, the mechanics, unisex hairdressers … no one is saved from the Sfranta.
etc… etc …
The only ones Sfranta never gets angry with are the pass, that we remember are the approximately one hundred nobles of Ithaca who in’Homer's Odysseythey persistently court Penelope during Ulysses' absence, but that in the modern version clerical-rainbow instead they court Odysseus and ignore Penelope altogether.
Amazing reports follow in a cascade: exposed to the Order of Psychologists against one of the most famous Italian criminologists; threats of a lawsuit against a diocese that dared to officially deny the Sfranta with a public statement from the curia after it had repeatedly offended the bishop in various articles; invitations to sign an official protest to remove from the chair a theologian of recognized preparation and undeniable teaching qualities …
The Sfranta does not limit itself to acting as a passive instrument of the system, but she becomes an active actress, driven by the frenetic objective of clearing customs and legitimizing the fantastic rainbow worldinside the church. And if anyone opposes the entry of this Rainbow Trojan Horsewithin the walls of City of God, the accusation is ready and the critic branded as an "affectively unresolved subject". La Sfranta acts as a true vanguard of the system: he says and writes, via blog and social media, what certain clerical-rainbowthey cannot afford to state publicly; it strikes those whom the latter cannot attack directly; exerts constant pressure through accusations, insinuations, reports to the ecclesiastical authorities, letters, exposed, delegitimization campaigns. But be careful not to deny it, or to react to his barrages of insults, is never! Right there and then he immediately proclaims himself a victim, shouting about discrimination, according to the now known and consolidated schemes of Sfranta’s logic.
The “strength” of the Sfranta lies in the almost total absence of constraints. It does not answer to any ecclesiastical authority, does not risk canonical sanctions, does not pay any institutional price. He acts, de facto, in a gray area of substantial impunity, which renders any attempt at a proportionate legal reaction ineffective. For this reason it is very useful to certain groups of people clerical-rainbow who use it while maintaining an apparently neutral position: because she is the one who exposes herself, to talk, to write, to report; the puppeteers remain in total anonymity.
I clerical-rainbow that govern this system they rarely appear on the front lines. They observe, they protect, they orient, leaving it up to Sfranta to act and put her face to it, in a desperate attempt to delegitimize priests and theologians hostile to this Rainbow Pious Brotherhood. It is in this context that a Sfranta without any formal mandate turns into a promoter of "reports" motivated by an alleged zeal for the good of the Church. In addition to his writings, he also releases videos in which he sighs, she sobs and indulges in little moves that recall the satirist's less gifted sister Rita da Cascia played by the aforementioned great Paolo Poli.
No explicit accusation, no concrete evidence: just allusions, suspicious, sentences dropped with apparent discretion, in the hope that, by dint of repeating blatant falsehoods that are repeatedly denied as such, these end up being perceived as true, finally passing as such.
It is within this opaque environment that the Rainbow Pious Brotherhoodfinds the ideal conditions to consolidate and reproduce, remaining anonymous and sending a Sfranta who walks a tightrope on the attack, uttering insults and making bold allusions to behaviors that are indicated as criminally relevant without ever openly naming the targeted person, but making everyone understand who this unnamed person is, soon after, he begins to receive numerous messages from readers and friends who warn him «the Sfranta has taken it out on you again».
In this sense,, Sfranta has set a precedent. So much so that I decided to imitate it with the exact same technique: I didn't mention her, just like she doesn't name, often, those he heavily targets.
And now I say goodbye, I have to rush to assist Penelope, deeply depressed since i suitors of Ithaca they started waving the flag rainbowand to woo Ulysses while totally ignoring her. Even the suitors of Ithaca have now done an honest thing coming-out, or as Saint Augustine said in one of his famous sermons: «I can not remain silent (I can't keep silent)» (Sermon. 88, 14, 13, PL). Like this, they decided to do not be silent (don't be silent) and to openly court Ulysses.
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THE CASE WEDDING RING & CULTURE AND THE IMPORTANCE OF NOT FOLLOWING A "THEOLOGY OF EMOTION" WHICH IS OPPOSED TO THE MAGISTERY OF THE CHURCH
Theology is not practiced through emotional reaction, but for scientific argument, through consistent use of precise speculative categories, with distinction of levels and respect for levels of discourse. If these assumptions are missing, there is no theological refutation, but an intervention foreign to the field of theology itself.
It is first necessary to clarify a methodological point: theology is not practiced through emotional reaction, but for scientific argument, through consistent use of precise speculative categories, with distinction of levels and respect for levels of discourse. If these assumptions are missing, there is no theological refutation, but an intervention foreign to the field of theology itself.
My article advanced a precise thesis, articulated and verifiable (cf. Who). Anyone who reads it and then examines the content of Dr.'s reply. Zeno, will be able to ascertain an objective fact: the issues I raised are not addressed on their merits, but circumvented by shifting the discourse to lateral planes, which do not touch the argument I proposed, rather: they don't even touch it.
Anyone can verify that in the disputed text I explicitly clarified that I was intervening as a priest, pastor in care of souls, confessor and spiritual director. The reply of Dr. Zeno instead generically refers to the right of lay people to express themselves, however avoiding the central point, without taking into account that the speech did not concern the right to speak or criticize, but on the specific ecclesial experience from which the reflection originates: the Sacrament of Penance and spiritual direction, where the priests operate, not the laity. It is from this concrete practice, not from an abstract theoretical construction, that my intervention begins and is structured. And on this specific level, the reply is simply irrelevant.
The argument that having had six children suggests a sort of competence superior to that of priests in the moral and pastoral field, it falls within a well-known argumentative typology, historically used by secularist and anticlerical environments to delegitimize the magisterium and the word of the clergy on family and relational issues. Re-proposing this scheme does not strengthen the argument, but it reveals its methodological weakness.
Then there is a central point, which does not allow for ambiguity. The Dr. Zeno publicly objected several times, in harsh and disrespectful tones, the Prefect of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith in relation to the Doctrinal Note Mother of the Faithful People, concerning the inappropriateness of the use of the title of "co-redemptrix" referring to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Now, the determining fact is the following: that document, approved by the Supreme Pontiff who ordered its publication, falls within the authentic Magisterium of the Church. This data, by itself, closes the problem on the ecclesiastical level to any specious "right of criticism".
Then reply by invoking freedom of thought to reject this act is equivalent to deliberately confusing the level of theological research with that of the assent due to the Magisterium. Theological freedom does not authorize the public and contemptuous contestation of a document approved by the Supreme Pontiff, nor does it allow personal opinions and acts of ecclesial authority to be placed on the same level, only to then proclaim themselves theologians, defenders of the faith and Catholic educators.
The call to saints, mystics or to individual statements by past Pontiffs does not change this picture, because Catholic theology has always distinguished:
– devotional or mystical expressions, which do not bind the faith of believers in any way;
– the statements made by the Popes as private doctors;
– the acts of the authentic Magisterium, which instead require ecclesial membership combined with filial respect and devout obedience to the Roman Pontiff and the Bishops.
It is also an indisputable historical fact that Saint John Paul II always rejected the request to define the dogma of Mary co-redemptrix; that Benedict XVI highlighted the Christological difficulties posed by the term itself; that Francesco, as well as finally Leo XIV, have confirmed this orientation, approving the doctrinal note in question. Faced with this coherent set of data, the insistence on isolated and decontextualized quotes does not constitute theological argument, but an ideological selection of sources, preceded and accompanied by their manipulation, after an amateurish approach to the theology and history of the dogma that arises, as an effect, that of poisoning the simplest members of the People of God, the same one that we must protect and protect by imperative of conscience, as Priests of Christ instituted to teach, sanctifying and guiding.
Applying the same criterion of extrapolation and manipulation, one could challenge the dogma of the Immaculate Conception by recalling the reservations of Saint Thomas Aquinas, or call into question the current discipline of Penance on the basis of the positions of Saint Ambrose and Saint Gregory the Great, matured in a radically different historical context, when this Sacrament was not repeatable and could only be administered once in a lifetime and never again. Always following this anti-theological and anti-historical logic, one could even deny the First Council of Nicaea, referring to hypotheses and opinions expressed by various Holy Fathers before the year 325.
The inconsistency of this method is therefore immediately evident that — between saints and mystics, messages of Fatima and clumsy lives of Jesus fictionalized by Maria Valtorta - would bring the discussion back into the realm of pietism and the most desolate fideism, realities that have nothing to do with the Catholic faith and with theological speculation properly and scientifically speaking.
From the videos released by Dr. Zeno a not exactly correct and not fully orthodox approach to fundamental theology emerges: manifest forms of hostility towards the Magisterium of the Church are detected; we set ourselves up as defenders of the "true faith" and the "true tradition", that these groups would claim to protect in the face of actions by Pontiffs and Bishops that they consider doctrinally questionable; everything is masked under the reference to freedom of thought and opinion, which, however, in fact, results in ideological stances.
The picture is completed — and here I conclude — with a series of other videos “highly educational”, distinct and subsequent to that which is the subject of this response of mine, which speak for themselves. To name just one, among many, just think of statements of unprecedented gravity such as: «Heresy is worse than pedophilia»
This is a statement devoid of any logical and theological criteria, founded on an improper juxtaposition between radically different realities on an ontological and moral level. These are comparisons, if proposed by someone who presents himself as a theologian, Catholic pedagogue and trainer, they cannot be dismissed as simple naivety of expression, but they reveal a serious lack of prudence and methodological discernment on a pedagogical and theological level.
From the island of Patmos, 14 January 2026
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THE UNSUPPLIABLE CHARM EXERCISED ON CERTAIN LAY PEOPLE BY THE "THEOLOGY OF UNDERPANTS"
It is good to remind these lay people - that on the one hand they establish "How far to go?» according to theirs “pant theology” and who on the other are protagonists of public contempt for legitimate ecclesiastical authority -, than systematic protest, public and contemptuous of the Magisterium of the Church constitutes a much more serious sin, more serious and more objectively disordered than the emotional fragility of two young people living in a relationship outside of marriage.
Every ecclesial era knows its own moral deformations. One of the most recurrent - because apparently reassuring - is that which reduces the question of good and evil almost exclusively to the sexual sphere. A reduction that does not arise from moral seriousness, but by a simplification as crude as it is misleading which ends up betraying the very thing it claims to defend.
In the contemporary ecclesial debate, especially in some lay environments linked to an unspecified tradition, We are witnessing a curious and at the same time worrying phenomenon: the emergence of a sort of “underpants theology”, in which the mystery of evil is substantially limited to what happens - or is presumed to happen - from the waist down. Everything else can take a backseat: wounded charity, justice trampled upon, the manipulated truth, the violated conscience. The important thing is that the underwear stays in place, whether real or symbolic.
Morality and morality are not the same thing, it is good to clarify this immediately: they don't coincide, in fact they often oppose it. Moralism is a caricature of morality, because it is based on rigid criteria, abstract and selective, while Catholic morality is based on charity, theological virtue that does not eliminate the truth, but it makes it habitable for concrete man, fragile and sinful.
Bigotry, Puritanism in the worst sense of the word and obsessive moralism are well-known realities, but it must be said honestly that they very rarely arise from the priestly ministry lived in a holy way. More often they take shape in self-referential secular environments, in which the lack of real pastoral experience is compensated with a doctrinal security as inflexible as it is abstract.
It's not about defending a category — that of the priests — but to note a fact: lay people who have never listened to a wounded conscience, who have never accompanied a royal penitent, who have never carried the weight of certain delicate spiritual directions, they hardly possess the tools to judge the complexity of human sin with balance. Despite this, they launch themselves into themes that touch the most intimate and delicate spheres of human souls, often even in a pedantic way, thus giving secularists a bizarre image of Catholicity and increasing their prejudices and negative judgments on the Catholic Church.
The hierarchy of sins is an often forgotten truth. The Catholic moral tradition has always taught that not all sins have the same weight. There is an objective hierarchy of evil, based on the gravity of matter, on intentionality and consequences. And in this hierarchy, sins against charity, justice and truth occupy a much higher place than many sins related to the sexual sphere.
but yet, for lovers of the "underpants theology", this distinction seems unbearable. Better a serious sin against charity, as long as you are well dressed, than a human frailty experienced in struggle and shame. Better respectable hypocrisy than tiring truth. Like this, what should scandalize — hatred, the lie, the abuse of power, the manipulation of consciences — is relativized, while what concerns people's intimacy becomes the privileged field of obsessive surveillance, all of which is typical – I repeat – of certain bigoted secularists, not priests.
The “underpants theology” is an obsession which often says more about those who judge than about those who are judged. The maniacal obsession with bedrooms, you have inches, to postures and presumed intentions reveals a profound difficulty in inhabiting one's own inner world. It is easier to measure the sin of others with the goldsmith's scale than to deal with one's own conscience. The priest, instead, when he seriously exercises his ministry, it starts from an elementary and anything but theoretical assumption: we are all sinners, we are the first ones called to absolve sins. It is this awareness that generates mercy, not laxity; comprehension, not relativism. Christian mercy does not arise from a minimization of sin, but from the real knowledge of man.
It is no coincidence that the Gospel reserves very harsh words not so much to manifest sinners, as for those who transform the law into an instrument of oppression. That warning from Jesus, often forgotten by professional lay moralists, remains of disconcerting relevance:
"Woe also to you, lawyers!, you load men with unbearable burdens, and those weights you do not touch with a finger!» (LC 11,46).
It is in front of this word that every easy "underpants theology" it should collapse. Because the problem is not the defense of morality, but the perverse use of morality as an instrument of control, of self-absolution and spiritual superiority.
A morality that loses contact with charity becomes ideology. A morality that selects sins based on its obsession ceases to be Christian. A morality that ignores the hierarchy of evil ends up protecting the most serious sins and persecuting the most visible ones.
The “underpants theology” is not a sign of faithfulness to the doctrine, but of a profound misunderstanding of the Gospel. He does not defend Catholic morality: he cheats on her. E, paradoxically, it does a terrible service to the very Church it claims to want to save.
To conclude with a concrete example truly embodied: in recent days I have had the opportunity to experience the pain of a man who felt betrayed and abandoned by another man he had loved - and continued to love - with whom he had started a relationship that was then abruptly interrupted. A real pain, lacerating, who didn't need lessons, but listening. I may have made moral judgments? Perhaps I have drawn up a list of faults or measured that relationship with the scale of abstract morality? Absolutely not. My priestly task, in that moment, it was welcoming a wounded soul, collect the pain, help her - as much as possible - not to succumb to the weight of disappointment and abandonment.
I can't imagine what "lesson on purity" would have received that man if he had turned to certain zealous lay leaders who, with a smiling air and glossy language, they even propose themselves as Catholic trainers, only to then allow himself to publicly insult with insolence the Prefect of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith and to repeatedly contest the official documents approved by the Supreme Pontiff.
Indeed, the same Lord who explains to young people on video «How far to go?» it's the usual guy who, with just as many videos, unloaded tankers of mud against Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández for a document approved by the Supreme Pontiff - and therefore an authentic act of the Magisterium -, locked up with his associates in the logic of a Church "in-my-way”, where authority is accepted only when it confirms their obsessions: from the The old rite of the Mass to the theological aberration of Mary Coredemptrix.
It is therefore good to remind these lay people — which on the one hand establish «How far to go?» according to theirs “pant theology” and who on the other are protagonists of public contempt for legitimate ecclesiastical authority -, than systematic protest, public and contemptuous of the Magisterium of the Church constitutes a much more serious sin, more serious and more objectively disordered than the emotional fragility of two young people living in a relationship outside of marriage. I state this unambiguously as a man, as a priest, as a theologian, as confessor and spiritual director. Because I'm a priest and, even before, a sinner. And for this I thank God, as two other great sinners thanked him before me: Saint Paul and Saint Augustine.
Amen.
From the island of Patmos, 13 January 2026
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THE IRRESISTIBLE FASCINATION EXERTED ON CERTAIN LAY PEOPLE BY THE “THEOLOGY OF THE UNDERWEAR”
It is therefore fitting to remind these lay people — who on the one hand establish “how far you may go” according to their theology of the underwear, and on the other hand make themselves protagonists of public contempt for legitimate ecclesial authority — that the systematic, public, and contemptuous contestation of the Magisterium of the Church constitutes a sin far more grave, more serious, and more objectively disordered than the affective fragility of two young people who live a relationship outside of marriage.
Every ecclesial age knows its own moral distortions. One of the most recurrent — precisely because it appears reassuring — is the tendency to reduce the question of good and evil almost exclusively to the sexual sphere. This reduction does not arise from moral seriousness, but from a simplification that is as crude as it is misleading, and which ultimately betrays precisely what it claims to defend.
In contemporary ecclesial debate, especially in certain lay environments loosely connected to an ill-defined notion of “tradition”, one observes a curious and at the same time troubling phenomenon: the emergence of a kind of “theology of the underwear”, in which the mystery of evil is essentially confined to what happens — or is presumed to happen — below the waist. Everything else may be relegated to the background: wounded charity, trampled justice, manipulated truth, violated conscience. What matters is that the underwear remains in place, whether real or symbolic.
Moralism and moral theology are not the same thing; this must be made clear at once. They do not coincide — indeed, they often stand in opposition. Moralism is a caricature of morality, because it is based on rigid, abstract and selective criteria, whereas Catholic moral teaching rests upon charity, the theological virtue that does not abolish truth but renders it habitable for the concrete, fragile and sinful human being.
Bigotry, puritanism in its worst sense, and obsessive moralism are well-known realities; yet it must be said honestly that they very rarely arise from a priestly ministry lived in a holy and authentic manner. Much more often they take shape in self-referential lay circles, where the lack of real pastoral experience is compensated by a doctrinal self-assurance that is as inflexible as it is abstract.
This is not a matter of defending a category — that of priests — but of acknowledging a simple fact: lay people who have never listened to a wounded conscience, who have never accompanied a real penitent, who have never borne the weight of delicate spiritual direction, can scarcely possess the tools required to judge with balance the complexity of human sin. Yet they rush headlong into issues that touch the most intimate and delicate spheres of the human soul, often in a pedantic manner, thus offering secularists a bizarre image of Catholicism and reinforcing their prejudices and negative judgments about the Catholic Church.
The hierarchy of sins is a truth that is often forgotten. Catholic moral tradition has always taught that not all sins carry the same weight. There exists an objective hierarchy of evil, grounded in the gravity of the matter, intentionality, and consequences. Within this hierarchy, sins against charity, justice, and truth occupy a far more serious place than many faults connected to the sexual sphere.
And yet, for the devotees of the “theology of the underwear”, this distinction appears intolerable. Better a grave sin against charity, provided it is well dressed, than a human fragility lived in struggle and shame. Better respectable hypocrisy than demanding truth. Thus, what ought truly to scandalize — hatred, lies, abuse of power, manipulation of consciences — is relativized, while everything concerning personal intimacy becomes the privileged field of an obsessive surveillance, entirely typical — I repeat — of certain bigoted lay people, not of priests.
The “theology of the underwear” is an obsession that often reveals far more about those who judge than about those who are judged. A manic fixation on bedrooms, measurements, postures, and presumed intentions betrays a profound inability to inhabit one’s own interior world. It is easier to measure the sins of others with the goldsmith’s scale than to come to terms with one’s own conscience. The priest, on the other hand, when he exercises his ministry seriously, begins from an elementary and anything but theoretical premise: all of us are sinners — we who are first called to absolve sins. It is this awareness that gives rise to mercy, not laxity; understanding, not relativism. Christian mercy is not born from minimizing sin, but from a real knowledge of the human person.
It is no coincidence that the Gospel reserves its harshest words not so much for manifest sinners as for those who transform the law into an instrument of oppression. That warning of Jesus, so often forgotten by professional lay moralists, remains strikingly актуal:
“Woe also to you, lawyers, for you load people with burdens hard to bear, and you yourselves do not lift a finger to ease them!” (Page 11:46)
It is before this word that every facile “theology of the underwear” ought to collapse. For the problem is not the defense of morality, but the perverse use of morality as an instrument of control, self-absolution, and spiritual superiority.
A morality that loses contact with charity becomes ideology. A morality that selects sins according to its own obsessions ceases to be Christian. A morality that ignores the hierarchy of evil ends up protecting the gravest sins and persecuting those that are merely more visible.
The “theology of the underwear” is not a sign of fidelity to doctrine, but of a profound misunderstanding of the Gospel. It does not defend Catholic morality; it betrays it. And, paradoxically, it renders a very poor service precisely to the Church it claims to want to save.
To conclude with a concrete and truly incarnated example: in recent days I had occasion to receive the pain of an excellent young man who felt betrayed and abandoned by another young man whom he had loved — and whom he continued to love — and with whom he had entered into a relationship that was then abruptly broken off. A real, lacerating pain, which did not require lessons, but listening. Did I pronounce moral judgments? Did I draw up a casuistry of faults or measure that relationship with the scales of abstract morality? Absolutely not. My priestly task at that moment was to welcome a wounded soul, to gather its pain, and to help it — insofar as possible — not to succumb beneath the weight of disappointment and abandonment.
I do not dare imagine what kind of “lesson on purity” that young man would have received had he turned to certain zealous lay animators who, with smiling faces and polished language, present themselves as Catholic formators, only then to permit themselves to publicly and insolently insult the Prefect of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith and to repeatedly contest official documents approved by the Supreme Pontiff.
The same individual who, in videos, explains to young people “how far you may go”, is the very one who, through other videos, has poured tanker loads of mud upon Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández for a document approved by the Supreme Pontiff — and therefore an authentic act of the Magisterium — enclosed together with his associates within the logic of a “Church my way”, in which authority is accepted only when it confirms their obsessions: from the The old rite of the Mass to the theological aberration of Mary Co-Redemptrix.
It is therefore fitting to remind these lay people — who on the one hand establish “how far you may go” according to their theology of the underwear, and on the other hand make themselves protagonists of public contempt for legitimate ecclesial authority — that the systematic, public, and contemptuous contestation of the Magisterium of the Church constitutes a sin far more grave, more serious, and more objectively disordered than the affective fragility of two young people who live a relationship outside of marriage.
I affirm this without ambiguity as a man, as a priest, as a theologian, as a confessor, and as a spiritual director. For I am a priest and, before that, a sinner. And for this I give thanks to God, as before me two other great sinners gave thanks: Saint Paul and Saint Augustine.
Amen.
From the Island of Patmos, 13 January 2026
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THE FASCINATING AND IRRESISTIBLE ATTRACTION THAT THE “THEOLOGY OF BRAGA” EXERCISES ON CERTAIN LAY PEOPLE
It suits, well, remind these lay people - who on the one hand establish "how far you can go" according to their braga theology and on the other hand, establish themselves as protagonists of the public contempt of the legitimate ecclesiastical Authority - that the systematic, public and contemptuous of the Magisterium of the Church constitutes a much more serious sin, more serious and more objectively disordered than the emotional fragility of two young people who have a relationship outside of marriage.
Every ecclesial era knows its own moral deformations. One of the most recurrent - precisely because it is reassuring - is the one that reduces the question of good and evil almost exclusively to the sexual sphere.. This is a reduction that is not born of moral seriousness, but of a simplification as crude as it is misleading, that ends up betraying precisely what it seeks to defend.
In the contemporary ecclesial debate, especially in certain lay environments linked to a poorly defined tradition, a curious and at the same time worrying phenomenon is observed: the emergence of a kind of “panty theology”, in which the mystery of evil is substantially limited to what happens — or is presumed to happen — from the waist down. Everything else can take a backseat: wounded charity, justice trampled, the manipulated truth, the violated conscience. The important thing is that the panties stay in place, sea real or symbolic.
Moralism and morality are not the same; It is worth clarifying it from the beginning. They do not match and, often, they oppose. Moralism is a caricature of morality, because it is based on rigid criteria, abstract and selective, while Catholic morality is based on charity, theological virtue that does not eliminate the truth, but it makes it habitable for the concrete man, fragile and sinful.
The beguinage, puritanism in its worst sense and obsessive moralism are well-known realities; but it must be said with honesty that they are very rarely born from a priestly ministry lived holily.. They most often take shape in self-referential secular environments, in which the lack of real pastoral experience is compensated by a doctrinal security as inflexible as it is abstract.
It is not about defending a category — that of the priests — but to verify a fact: laymen who have never heard a wounded conscience, who have never accompanied a real penitent, who have never carried the weight of delicate spiritual directions, they hardly have the necessary instruments to judge with balance the complexity of human sin. Y, however, They launch into topics that touch the most intimate and delicate spheres of the human soul., often with a pedantic attitude, thus offering secularists an extravagant image of Catholicity and feeding their prejudices and negative judgments about the Catholic Church..
The hierarchy of sins is an often forgotten truth. The Catholic moral tradition has always taught that not all sins have the same weight. There is an objective hierarchy of evil, based on the gravity of matter, in intentionality and consequences. And within this hierarchy, sins against charity, Justice and truth occupy a much more serious place than many guilts linked to the sexual sphere..
However, for the adherents of the “panty theology”, This distinction is unbearable. Better a serious sin against charity, as long as you are well dressed, that a human fragility lived in struggle and shame. Better respectable hypocrisy than demanding truth. So, what should shock — hatred, the lie, abuse of power, the manipulation of consciences - is relativized, while everything that refers to people's privacy becomes the privileged field of obsessive surveillance, entirely typical — I repeat — of certain blessed laymen, not from the priests.
The “panty theology” is an obsession which often says more about those who judge than about those who are judged. The manic fixation on bedrooms, centimeters, postures and presumed intentions reveal a profound difficulty in inhabiting one's own inner world. It is easier to measure another's sin with the goldsmith's scale than to face one's own conscience.. The priest, instead, when he seriously exercises his ministry, part of an elementary budget and not at all theoretical: we are all sinners, starting with us, that we are the first called to absolve sins. It is this awareness that generates mercy, not laxity; comprehension, non-relativism. Christian mercy is not born from minimizing sin, but of the real knowledge of man.
It is no coincidence that the Gospel reserve very harsh words not so much for manifest sinners, how much for those who transform the law into an instrument of oppression. That warning from Jesus, so often forgotten by professional lay moralists, retains a disconcerting relevance:
"Woe to you too, doctors of the law, that you load men with unbearable weights and you do not touch them even with a finger!» (LC 11,46)
It is before this word that all easy “panty theology” should collapse. Because the problem is not the defense of morality, but the perverse use of morality as an instrument of control, of self-absolution and spiritual superiority.
A morality that loses contact with charity becomes ideology. A morality that selects sins according to its own obsessions is no longer Christian.. A morality that ignores the hierarchy of evil ends up protecting the most serious sins and persecuting the most visible ones..
The “panty theology” is not a sign of fidelity to the doctrine, but from a profound misunderstanding of the Gospel. Does not defend Catholic morality: betrays her. Y, paradoxically, provides a terrible service precisely to the Church that it claims to want to save.
To conclude with a concrete example and truly embodied: In recent days I had the opportunity to welcome the pain of an excellent young man who felt betrayed and abandoned by another young man whom he had loved - and whom he continued to love - and with whom he had established a relationship that was then abruptly interrupted.. a real pain, piercing, that I didn't need lessons, but listen. Did I make moral judgments?? Did I create a casuistry of guilt or did I measure that relationship with the scale of abstract morality?? At all. My priestly task at that time was to welcome a wounded soul, collect her pain and help her — as much as possible — not to succumb under the weight of disappointment and abandonment.
I dare not imagine what a “lesson on purity” would have received that young man if he had turned to certain zealous lay animators who, with a smiling face and polished language, They present themselves as Catholic trainers, and then allowed himself to publicly insult with insolence the Prefect of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith and repeatedly answer official documents approved by the Supreme Pontiff.
The same character who in videos explains to young people "how far you can go", is the same as, through other videos, has dumped veritable tankers of mud against Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández for a document approved by the Supreme Pontiff — and, therefore, authentic act of the Magisterium —, locked together with his followers in the logic of a Church “my way”, where authority is only accepted when it confirms its obsessions: from the The old rite of the Mass to the theological aberration of Mary Co-redemptrix.
It suits, well, remember these laymen — who on the one hand establish “how far you can go” according to their braga theology and on the other hand, establish themselves as protagonists of the public contempt of the legitimate ecclesiastical Authority — that the systematic, public and contemptuous of the Magisterium of the Church constitutes a much more serious sin, more serious and more objectively disordered than the emotional fragility of two young people who have a relationship outside of marriage.
I affirm it without ambiguity as a man, as a priest, as theologian, as confessor and as spiritual director. Because I am a priest and, even before, sinner. And for that I thank God, as before me two other great sinners gave thanks: Saint Paul and Saint Augustine.
Amen.
From the Island of Patmos, 13 January 2026
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THE IRRESISTIBLE FASCINATION, WHICH EXERCISES THE “UNDERWEAR THEOLOGY” ON CERTAIN LAYS
It is therefore appropriate, to remind these laypeople of this - on the one hand they determine, “how far one is allowed to go” according to their underwear theology and, on the other hand, appear as protagonists of public contempt for legitimate ecclesiastical authority —, that the systematic, public and contemptuous challenge to the church's magisterium is a far more serious one, represents a more serious and objectively disordered sin than the affective fragility of two young people, who are in a relationship outside of marriage.
Every ecclesiastical era has its own moral distortions. One of the most common - precisely because it seems to have a calming effect - is this, to reduce the question of good and evil almost exclusively to the area of sexuality. However, such a reduction does not arise from moral seriousness, but rather a simplification that is both gross and misleading, which in the end reveals just that, what she claims to be defending.
In the current church debate, especially in certain amateur milieus, which refer to a vaguely defined “tradition”., A phenomenon that is as strange as it is disturbing can be observed: the emergence of a kind of “underwear theology”, in which the mystery of evil is essentially limited to that, what - or what supposedly - below the belt linehappens. Everything else can fade into the background: wounded charity, trampled justice, manipulated truth, violated conscience. What matters is alone, that the underwear stays in its place - be it real or symbolic.
Moralism and morality are not the same thing; This needs to be made clear from the start. They don't coincide, rather, they often contradict each other. Moralism is a caricature of morality, because he is rigid, based on abstract and selective criteria, while Catholic morality is grounded in love — that theological virtue, which does not cancel out the truth, but for the specific one, makes fragile and sinful people habitable.
Bigotry, Puritanism at its worst Sense and obsessive moralism are well-known phenomena. However, fairness must be said, that they only very rarely emerge from a holy and authentic priestly service. They arise far more often in self-referential, lay circles, in which the lack of real pastoral experience is compensated for by a doctrinal self-assurance that is as indomitable as it is abstract.
That's not what this is about, to defend a certain category - that of priests, but rather the sober statement of facts: Laymen, who have never listened to a wounded voice of conscience, who have never accompanied a real penitent, who have never borne the weight of delicate spiritual accompaniments, hardly have the necessary instruments, to give a balanced assessment of the complexity of human sin. Nevertheless, they pounce on topics, that touch the most intimate and vulnerable areas of the human soul - often in a didactic tone - and thus provide secularists with a bizarrely distorted image of catholicity, while at the same time reinforcing their prejudices and negative judgments about the Catholic Church.
The hierarchy of sins is a truth, which is often forgotten today. Catholic moral teaching has always taught, that not all sins have the same weight. There is an objective hierarchy of evil, based on the gravity of the matter, in the intention and in the consequences. Within this order, sins take place against love, Justice and truth are far more serious than many sexual offenses.
For the followers of “underwear theology” however, this distinction seems intolerable. Better a serious sin against charity, as long as she is well dressed, as a human fragility, which is lived in struggle and shame. Better respectable hypocrisy than laborious truth. That's how it will be, what should actually be scandalous - hate, lie, Abuse of power, Manipulation of conscience - put into perspective, during everything, when it comes to personal intimacy, becomes the preferred field of obsessive surveillance, quite typical - I repeat - of certain bigoted laymen, not for priests.
“Underwear theology” is an obsession, which often says more about them, who judge, than about those, that is being judged. The manic fixation on the bedroom, centimeter, Attitudes and supposed intentions reveal a deep inability, to inhabit your own inner space. It's easier, to measure the sins of others with gold scales, than to face one's own examination of conscience. The priest, on the other hand, if he carries out his ministry seriously, begins from an elementary and anything but theoretical premise: We are all sinners, and we ourselves are the first, who are called to absolve sins. From this insight comes mercy, not laxity; Understanding, not relativism. Christian mercy does not arise from trivializing sin, but from a realistic knowledge of people.
It's not a coincidence, that the Gospel does not direct its harshest words so much to obvious sinners, but to them, who turn the law into an instrument of oppression. This admonition of Jesus, so often forgotten by professional amateur moralists, has a frightening relevance:
“Woe to you too, teachers of the law! You are putting burdens on people, which they can barely carry, but you yourself do not touch these burdens even with a finger.” (Page 11,46)
Any superficial “underwear theology” would have to be confronted with this word. collapse in on itself. Because the problem is not the defense of morality, but the perverse use of morality as an instrument of control, of self-justification and spiritual superiority.
A moral, who loses touch with love, becomes an ideology. A moral, chooses sins based on one's own obsessions, stops, to be Christian. A moral, which ignores the hierarchy of evil, ends there, to protect the gravest sins and persecute the more visible ones.
“Underwear theology” is not a sign of fidelity to doctrine, but rather an expression of a profound misunderstanding of the gospel. It does not defend Catholic morality - it betrays it. And paradoxically, it is precisely this church, that she claims to save, a disservice.
Finally, a specific one, truly incarnated example: In the past few days I have had the opportunity, to absorb the pain of an excellent young man, who is from another young man, whom he had loved - and whom he continued to love -, felt betrayed and abandoned; he had had a relationship with him, which had suddenly and abruptly ended. A real one, wrenching pain, who didn't need any instruction, but listening. Did I make moral judgments?? Did I create a casuistry of guilt or measure this relationship using the standard of abstract morality?? Not at all. My priestly task at that moment was this, to take in a wounded soul, to collect her pain and help her - as far as possible, not to collapse under the weight of disappointment and abandonment.
I dare not imagine, what “teaching about purity” this young man would have received, if he had turned to certain zealous amateur animators, who present themselves as Catholic formators with smiling faces and neat, polished language, to then allow yourself, publicly and with impudence insulting the Prefect of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith and repeatedly official, to challenge documents approved by the Holy Father.
The same people, which explain to young people in videos, “how far you can go”, In other videos, they poured out real dirt on Cardinal Víctor Manuel Fernández — because of a document, which was approved by the Pope and therefore represents an authentic act of the magisterium —, enclosed with their companions in the logic of a church “according to my taste”, in which authority is only accepted, when it confirms one's own obsessions: from the The old rite of the Mass right up to the theological aberration of a “co-redemptrix” of Mary.
It is therefore appropriate, to remind these laypeople of this - on the one hand they determine, “how far one is allowed to go” according to their underwear theology and, on the other hand, appear as protagonists of public contempt for legitimate ecclesiastical authority —, that the systematic, public and contemptuous challenge to the church's magisterium is a far more serious one, represents a more serious and objectively disordered sin than the affective fragility of two young people, who are in a relationship outside of marriage.
I say this without any ambiguity — as a human being, as a Priest, as a theologian, as a confessor and as a spiritual director. For I am a priest and before that a sinner. And I thank God for that, as two other great sinners before me thanked God: Saint Paul and Saint Augustine.
Amen.
From the island of Patmos, 13. January 2026
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THE DIGNITY OF MARGINALITY NOT WON IN THE PASSAGE OF ONE YEAR
Christian hope does not arise from the fact that things “will get better”, nor by the consensus gathered or the results obtained. It comes from knowing that truth is not measured immediately, but it will be judged in the last time. It is in this fidelity exposed to time and judgment - and not in the success of a season - that one decides whether a life was simply lived or truly treasured as a gift from God; if the talents received have been put to good use, or buried underground.
At the end of the year the world loves to take stock by measuring results, successes and failures. It's a reassuring exercise, because it allows us to judge life according to visible and immediately verifiable criteria, at least in appearance.
From a Christian perspective, But, not everything that is measurable is true, and what really decides the quality of an existence often does not coincide with what appears successful in the eyes of the world. On the path of faith, not rarely, true fulfillment takes the form of what the world judges to be failure and failure. It is the logic of the cross, which the Apostle Paul neither attenuates nor makes acceptable:
«We instead preach Christ crucified, scandal for the Jews and foolishness for the pagans" (1Color 1,23).
This size it is experienced by those who find themselves progressively pushed to the margins for not having betrayed their conscience or renounced the truth. Not for an ideological choice, nor due to personal incapacity, but due to a growing incompatibility with practice, languages and operating criteria of the ecclesiastical contexts in which they live and operate: systems that reward adaptation, they require appropriate silences and marginalize those who are not functional. In some respects, we could define them like this: the scandalous fools of the cross.
The fools of the cross they generate scandal by refusing to bend language to make an objectively unjust decision acceptable. They refuse to define as "pastoral" what in reality is simple opportunistic management of problems; they reject the anti-evangelical clerical logic of those who confuse fidelity to the Gospel with obedience to apparatus dynamics. They do not lend themselves to covering up protracted omissions over time with ambiguous formulas, nor do they accept that the softness of the clergy is justified by the lack of clergy, with organizational urgency or with the reference to presumed balances not to be disturbed. They do not adapt to irregular situations presented as inevitable, they don't accept being silenced to "not create problems", nor do they become accomplices of consortiums, mutual protections and reassuring narratives constructed to hide the truth.
In these cases, the reduction to marginality it is not the result of personal error, but the side effect of a non-negotiable consistency, almost always read as a defeat, as evidence of inadequacy or relational inability. However, this is not always the case: sometimes it is simply the price you pay for not adapting to a system that does not tolerate what it cannot control or use. This mechanism is neither new nor exclusive to the ecclesial sphere. It is typical of any closed power structure, including mafia organizations, who do not strike first those who break the law, but those who don't make themselves functional: who doesn't bend, who does not enter the circuit of mutual dependencies, those who do not accept the language, the silences and complicities required. In these systems, isolation and marginalization are not accidents, but deliberate instruments of control.
Accepting an unconquered marginality it falls within the wisdom of the foolishness of the cross and is not equivalent to taking refuge in a resentful niche or cultivating a spirituality of failure. Very concretely it means recognizing that not everything that is true finds space in official channels and that not every form of invisibility coincides with a loss. That's what happens, eg, to those who give up roles, positions or visibility in order not to sign official documents in which an unjust decision is presented as a "shared pastoral choice". It happens to those who refuse to hide real responsibilities behind false diplomatic formulas, presented as "holy prudence" but in reality functional to an opportunistic management of problems. It is the condition of those who continue to work seriously without being promoted because they do not belong to influential groups; of those who think and write without being invited because they are not aligned with the dominant narratives; of those who exercise real - training responsibilities, cultural, educational — without official positions or protective memberships, because he does not accept trading freedom of judgment for protection or recognition.
In these cases, invisibility is not the sign of personal failure, but a form of protection: preserves from the logic of appearance, it escapes the blackmail of consensus, prevents them from being used as tools. At times, over time, it even turns out to be a grace, not because it makes life easier, but because it allows us to remain free, intact and non-blackmailable. It is the condition of figures who appear relegated to the margins but not destroyed, believed to be silenced but instead surrendered, for this, more prolific. Scripture knows this dynamic well. Moses is removed from the public scene and taken to the desert of Midian before being called to free the people (cf.. Is 2,15; 3,1); Elijah flees into the desert, desires death, and right there he learns to listen that takes him away from the violence of power and the din of action (cf.. 1Re 19,1-18); John the Baptist was neither born nor operated in the center, but in the desert, away from official religious circuits, and from there prepare the way of the Lord (cf.. Mt 3,1-3; MC 1,2-4; LC 3,1-4). Jesus himself, before every public word and every sign, he is driven by the Spirit into the desert, where he explicitly rejects success, immediate effectiveness and the consensus of the crowds (cf.. Mt 4,1-11; MC 1,12-13; LC 4,1-13).
The desert, in the biblical and evangelical tradition, it is not the place of uselessness, but of purification: it does not produce visibility, but freedom; does not guarantee success, but truth. It is in this space that seemingly irrelevant figures mature, de facto, not blackmailable, generated by a fruitfulness that does not depend on immediate recognition, but from fidelity to the truth, by inner freedom and the ability to stand the test of time without being corrupted by it.
If you look at the Gospel without anxious pietism or devotional filters, it strikes an elementary fact: Jesus shows no anxiety about being at the center. On the contrary, when the center gets crowded, he withdraws from it naturally. Preach to the crowds (cf.. Mt 5–7; MC 6,34), but then he retreats (cf.. MC 1,35; GV 6,15); performs signs (cf.. MC 1,40-45; MC 7,31-37), but recommends silence (cf.. MC 1,44; MC 8,26); attracts disciples, but it does not hold back those who leave (cf.. GV 6,66-67). In current terms, we could say that he doesn't care about his own "positioning". Yet no one, more than him, has made an impact on history.
If you take on this evangelical gaze, even the Beatitudes cease to be an edifying repertoire to be proclaimed on solemn occasions and return to being what they are in their Christological reality: a criterion of radical discernment. They do not promise success, nor visibility, nor approval; on the contrary, they describe a form of paradoxical happiness, incompatible with the logic of consensus. And beats, in the Gospel, they are not the ones who “made it”, but those who have not traded the truth for applause (cf.. Mt 5,1-12).
Next to the Beatitudes, however, the Gospel also preserves the other side of the coin with equal clarity: the “trouble”. Rough words, little cited and rarely commented on, perhaps because they disturb an accommodating spirituality. «Woe to you when everyone speaks well of you» (LC 6,26): a warning that does not seem addressed to scandalous sinners, but to respectable people, appreciate, perfectly integrated. It is as if Jesus was warning against a subtle form of failure: that of those who obtain consensus at the price of their own internal freedom.
In the Gospel, consensus is never a value in itself. On the contrary, when it becomes unanimous, often takes on the features of a collective misunderstanding. The crowds cheer, only to then disappear (cf.. GV 6,14-15.66); the disciples applaud, only to then argue about who is the greatest (cf.. MC 9,33-34; LC 22,24); the notables recognize, only to then distance themselves out of fear or convenience (cf.. GV 12,42-43). Jesus goes through all this without ever being imprisoned by it. He does not seek opposition, but he doesn't fear it either; does not despise recognition, but he doesn't chase him. We could say, with a faint smile, who never confuses the approval rating with the measure of truth, because the approval rating is in man, the truth is in God.
It is in this sense that the Gospel exercises irony as discreet as it is implacable. Precisely those who preside over the center - the guarantors of order, correctness specialists, “It's always been done this way” professionals — are often the least equipped to recognize what really happens. While discussing procedures, documents are drawn up and balances not to be disturbed are invoked, faith takes shape elsewhere; while ensuring that nothing leaves the established perimeter, understanding matures offstage; while everything is measured in terms of consensus and opportunity, the truth passes through secondary roads, without asking permission. Not because I love margins as such, but because - as the Gospel shows with a certain obstinacy - the truth cannot be administered. And even fewer allow themselves to be certified by the number of consensuses obtained or by the tranquility of conscience that they manage to preserve.
Accepting an unconquered marginality, At that time, it does not mean cultivating a taste for opposition or taking refuge in a polemical attitude on principle. Means, more simply, stop measuring the value of a life — or a ministry — based on the approval received, to the tasks obtained or the consensus obtained, according to that logic that the century calls, shameless, hypertrophic narcissism. In concrete terms, it means not taking the number of invitations as a decisive criterion, of recognition or certificates of esteem, but the rectitude of the choices made. The Gospel, the rest, he doesn't ask to be applauded, but to be faithful. And this loyalty, not rarely, it is practiced far from the center, where you are less exposed to pressure, freer to look at reality for what it is and less forced to say what is appropriate.
The end of the year is often filled with disproportionate expectations. Final balance sheets are expected, conclusive judgments, words capable of fixing everything once and for all. In reality, for those who live with a minimum of inner honesty, this time is not used to close the accounts, but to stop cheating: not to tell each other comforting stories, not to confuse what was successful with what was right. This is not the time to proclaim goals, but to distinguish what is essential from what is superfluous, what deserves to be cherished from what can be let go without regrets.
There is a particular freedom which was born right here: when you accept that not everything needs to be solved, clarified or recognized. Some events remain open, some unanswered questions, some grave wrongs unredressed. But not everything that remains unfinished is sterile. Sometimes it is simply entrusted to a time that does not coincide with ours. This awareness, far from being a surrender, it is a high form of spiritual realism.
The “sober truth” it is not an internal disposition nor an abstract principle: it is recognized by the price that a person is willing to pay in order not to deny what he has understood as true. It manifests itself when you accept missing opportunities, assignments or protections so as not to resort to linguistic justifications, to accommodating formulas or moral alibis that make what cannot be presentable under any circumstances: pretend that evil is good and use this lie as a shield against those who try to call evil by its name.
In an ecclesial context in an objectively advanced state of decline, which measures people based on visibility, to adaptability and immediate usefulness, this choice has precise consequences, sometimes even devastating. It means continuing to carry out one's ministry or ecclesial service without being the recipient of appointments, of honorific positions or those sops with which power flatters and, together, subjects; without being involved in the decision-making bodies of the diocese or ecclesial institutions; without making ourselves available to government logics that require silence, adaptations or compromises deemed inadmissible, because they were paid at a price that no Christian conscience can accept: the sacrifice of the freedom of the children of God, inscribed from the beginning in the very mystery of the creation of man. Means, at last, accept that one's contribution remains unrewarded and relegated to the margins, not because it is useless, but because it cannot be spent in the circuits that count; and yet destined, in the silence of the desert, to be a seed that bears fruit.
Persevere, in this sense, it is not a form of obstinacy nor an identity attitude built to stand out. It is the decision to remain faithful to what has been recognized as true even when this faithfulness involves silence, loss of role and lack of recognition.
In the transition from one year to the next you are not asked to make consolatory assessments, but to look at what remains when time has worn away illusions, roles and justifications. The choices made remain, the words spoken or unsaid, responsibilities assumed or avoided. And this, and nothing else, the material that passes through time.
The Christian hope It doesn't arise from the fact that things "will get better", nor by the consensus gathered or the results obtained. It comes from knowing that truth is not measured immediately, but it will be judged in the last time. It is in this fidelity exposed to time and judgment - and not in the success of a season - that one decides whether a life was simply lived or truly treasured as a gift from God; if the talents received have been put to good use, or buried underground.
From the island of Patmos, 31 December 2025
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THE DIGNITY OF UNCONQUERED MARGINALITY IN THE PASSAGE FROM ONE YEAR TO ANOTHER
Christian hope does not arise from the fact that things “will get better”, nor from the consensus gathered or the results obtained. It arises from knowing that truth is not measured by the immediate, but will be judged in the ultimate time. It is in this fidelity exposed to time and to judgement — and not in the success of a season — that it is decided whether a life has been merely lived or truly safeguarded as a gift of God; whether the talents received have been made fruitful, or buried in the ground.
At the end of the year the world likes to take stock by measuring results, successes and failures. It is a reassuring exercise, because it allows life to be judged according to visible and immediately verifiable criteria — at least in appearance.
From a Christian perspective, however, not everything that can be measured is true, and what truly decides the quality of an existence often does not coincide with what appears successful in the eyes of the world. In the journey of faith, more often than not, genuine fulfilment takes the form of what the world judges to be failure and defeat. This is the logic of the cross, which the Apostle Paul neither softens nor renders acceptable:
“We proclaim Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles” (1 Color 1:23).
This dimension is lived by those who find themselves progressively pushed to the margins because they have not betrayed their conscience nor renounced the truth. Not out of ideological choice, nor because of personal inadequacy, but because of a growing incompatibility with the practices, language and operational criteria of the ecclesial contexts in which they live and work: systems that reward adaptation, demand convenient silences, and marginalise anyone who does not make himself functional. In some respects, we might define them thus: the scandalous fools of the cross.
The fools of the cross generate scandal by refusing to bend language so as to render acceptable a decision that is objectively unjust. They refuse to define as “pastoral” what is in reality nothing more than opportunistic management of problems; they reject anti-evangelical clerical logics that confuse fidelity to the Gospel with obedience to apparatus dynamics. They do not lend themselves to covering up omissions prolonged over time with ambiguous formulas, nor do they accept that clerical flaccidity be justified by a shortage of clergy, by organisational urgency, or by appeals to alleged balances that must not be disturbed. They do not adapt to irregular situations presented as inevitable; they do not accept being silenced “so as not to create problems”; nor do they make themselves accomplices of factions, mutual protections and reassuring narratives constructed to conceal the truth.
In such cases, reduction to marginality is not the result of personal error, but the collateral effect of a non-negotiable coherence, almost always read as defeat, as a sign of inadequacy or relational incapacity. Yet this is not always so: at times it is simply the price to be paid for not having adapted to a system that does not tolerate what it cannot control or exploit. This mechanism is neither new nor exclusive to the ecclesial sphere. It is typical of every closed power structure, including criminal organisations, which do not strike first those who break the law, but those who do not make themselves functional: those who do not bend, who do not enter the circuit of mutual dependencies, who do not accept the required language, silences and complicities. In such systems, isolation and marginalisation are not accidents, but deliberate instruments of control.
Accepting an unconquered marginality belongs to the wisdom of the foolishness of the cross and does not amount to retreating into a resentful niche or cultivating a spirituality of failure. Very concretely, it means recognising that not everything that is true finds space within official channels, and that not every form of invisibility coincides with loss. This is what happens, for example, to those who renounce roles, appointments or visibility rather than sign official documents in which an unjust decision is presented as a “shared pastoral choice”. It happens to those who refuse to mask real responsibilities behind false diplomatic formulas, presented as “holy prudence” but in fact functional to opportunistic management of problems. It is the condition of those who continue to work seriously without being promoted because they do not belong to influential factions; of those who think and write without being invited because they are not aligned with dominant narratives; of those who exercise real responsibilities — formative, cultural, educational — without official appointments or protective affiliations, because they refuse to barter freedom of judgement for protection or recognition.
In these cases, invisibility is not the sign of personal failure, but a form of protection: it preserves one from the logic of appearances, removes one from the blackmail of consensus, prevents one from being used as a tool. At times, over the long term, it even proves to be a grace—not because it makes life easier, but because it allows one to remain free, intact and not subject to blackmail. It is the condition of figures who appear relegated to the margins yet not destroyed, believed to be silenced and instead rendered, precisely for this reason, more prolific. Scripture knows this dynamic well. Moses is removed from the public stage and led into the desert of Midian before being called to liberate the people (cf. Exod 2:15; 3:1); Elijah flees into the desert, desires death, and precisely there learns a listening that removes him from the violence of power and the din of action (cf. 1 Kgs 19:1–18); John the Baptist is neither born nor operates at the centre, but in the desert, far from official religious circuits, and from there prepares the way of the Lord (cf. Matt 3:1–3; Mark 1:2–4; Luke 3:1–4). Jesus himself, before any public word or sign, is driven by the Spirit into the desert, where he explicitly rejects success, immediate effectiveness and the consensus of the crowds (cf. Matt 4:1–11; Mark 1:12–13; Luke 4:1–13).
The desert, in biblical and evangelical tradition, is not the place of uselessness, but of purification: it does not produce visibility, but freedom; it does not guarantee success, but truth. It is in this space that figures mature who are apparently irrelevant yet in fact not subject to blackmail, generated by a fruitfulness that does not depend on immediate recognition, but on fidelity to the truth, interior freedom and the capacity to endure time without being corrupted by it.
If one looks at the Gospel without anxious pieties or devotional filters, one elementary fact stands out: Jesus shows no anxiety about being at the centre. On the contrary, when the centre becomes crowded, he withdraws from it with ease. He preaches to the crowds (cf. Matt 5–7; Mark 6:34), but then he withdraws (cf. Mark 1:35; John 6:15); he performs signs (cf. Mark 1:40–45; Mark 7:31–37), but recommends silence (cf. Mark 1:44; Mark 8:26); he attracts disciples, but does not hold back those who leave (cf. John 6:66–67). In contemporary terms, one might say that he does not tend to his own “positioning”. And yet no one more than he has left a mark on history.
If one adopts this evangelical gaze, even the Beatitudes cease to be an edifying repertory to be proclaimed on solemn occasions and return to being what they are in their Christological reality: a radical criterion of discernment. They promise neither success, nor visibility, nor approval; on the contrary, they describe a paradoxical form of happiness, incompatible with the logic of consensus. In the Gospel, the blessed are not those who “have made it”, but those who have not bartered the truth for applause (cf. Matt 5:1–12).
Alongside the Beatitudes, however, the Gospel preserves with equal clarity the other side of the coin: the “woes”. Harsh words, little cited and rarely commented upon, perhaps because they disturb an accommodating spirituality. “Woe to you when all speak well of you” (Luke 6:26): a warning that does not seem addressed to scandalous sinners, but to respectable, appreciated, perfectly integrated people. It is as if Jesus were warning against a subtle form of failure: that of those who obtain consensus at the price of their own interior freedom.
In the Gospel, consensus is never a value in itself. Indeed, when it becomes unanimous, it often takes on the traits of a collective misunderstanding. The crowds acclaim, only to disappear (cf. John 6:14–15, 66); the disciples applaud, only to argue about who is the greatest (cf. Mark 9:33–34; Luke 22:24); the notables acknowledge, only to distance themselves out of fear or convenience (cf. John 12:42–43). Jesus passes through all of this without ever allowing himself to be imprisoned by it. He does not seek opposition, but neither does he fear it; he does not despise recognition, but he does not pursue it. One might say, with a faintly sketched smile, that he never confuses approval ratings with the measure of truth, because approval ratings are in human beings, whereas truth is in God.
It is in this sense that the Gospel exercises an irony that is as discreet as it is relentless. Precisely those who guard the centre — the guarantors of order, the specialists in correctness, the professionals of “this is how it has always been done” — often prove the least equipped to recognise what is actually taking place. While procedures are discussed, documents drafted and balances invoked that must not be disturbed, faith takes shape elsewhere; while vigilance ensures that nothing escapes the established perimeter, understanding matures offstage; while everything is measured in terms of consensus and opportunity, truth passes along secondary paths, without asking permission. Not because it loves the margins as such, but because — as the Gospel shows with a certain obstinacy — truth does not allow itself to be administered. Still less does it allow itself to be certified by the number of consents obtained or by the tranquillity of consciences it manages to preserve.
To accept an unconquered marginality, then, does not mean cultivating a taste for opposition or retreating into a polemical stance by principle. It means, more simply, ceasing to measure the value of a life — or of a ministry — by the approval received, the appointments obtained or the consensus gathered, according to that logic which the age, without embarrassment, calls hypertrophic narcissism. In concrete terms, it means not adopting as a decisive criterion the number of invitations, recognitions or attestations of esteem, but the rectitude of the choices made. The Gospel, after all, does not ask to be applauded, but to be faithful. And this fidelity is often exercised far from the centre, where one is less exposed to pressure, freer to look at reality for what it is, and less compelled to say what is convenient.
The end of the year is often burdened with disproportionate expectations. Definitive balances are demanded, conclusive judgements, words capable of putting everything in order once and for all. In reality, for anyone who lives with a minimum of interior honesty, this time serves not to close accounts, but to stop cheating: to cease telling oneself consoling stories, to stop confusing what has been successful with what has been just. It is not the moment to proclaim milestones, but to distinguish what is essential from what is superfluous, what deserves to be safeguarded from what can be let go without regret.
There is a particular freedom that is born precisely here: when one accepts that not everything must be resolved, clarified or recognised. Some events remain open, some questions unanswered, some grave wrongs unrepaired. Yet not everything that remains unfinished is sterile. At times it is simply entrusted to a time that does not coincide with our own. This awareness, far from being a surrender, is a high form of spiritual realism.
“Sober truth” is not an interior disposition nor an abstract principle: it is recognised by the price a person is willing to pay in order not to contradict what he has understood to be true. It manifests itself when one accepts the loss of opportunities, appointments or protections rather than resort to linguistic justifications, accommodating formulas or moral alibis that make presentable what can never be so in any case: pretending that evil is good and using this lie as a shield against those who attempt to call evil by its name.
In an ecclesial context in an objectively advanced state of decay, which measures people according to visibility, adaptability and immediate utility, this choice has precise, at times even devastating, consequences. It means continuing to exercise one’s ministry or ecclesial service without being the recipient of appointments, honorary offices or those petty concessions with which power both flatters and subjugates; without being involved in the decision-making bodies of the diocese or ecclesial institutions; without making oneself available to forms of governance that demand silences, adaptations or compromises deemed inadmissible because they are paid for at a price that no Christian conscience can accept: the sacrifice of the freedom of the children of God, inscribed from the beginning in the very mystery of the creation of the human being. It means, finally, accepting that one’s contribution remains without gratification and relegated to the margins, not because it is useless, but because it is not expendable in the circuits that count; and yet destined, in the silence of the desert, to be seed that bears fruit.
Persevering, in this sense, is not a form of obstinacy nor an identity posture constructed to distinguish oneself. It is the decision to remain faithful to what has been recognised as true even when this fidelity entails silence, loss of role and absence of recognition.
In the passage from one year to another, one is not asked to draw consoling balances, but to look at what remains when time has consumed illusions, roles and justifications. What remain are the choices made, the words spoken or left unsaid, the responsibilities assumed or avoided. This, and nothing else, is the material that passes through time.
Christian hope does not arise from the fact that things “will get better”, nor from the consensus gathered or the results obtained. It arises from knowing that truth is not measured by the immediate, but will be judged in the ultimate time. It is in this fidelity exposed to time and to judgement — and not in the success of a season — that it is decided whether a life has been merely lived or truly safeguarded as a gift of God; whether the talents received have been made fruitful, or buried in the ground.
From the Island of Patmos, 31 December 2025
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THE DIGNITY OF UNEXCITED MARGINALITY IN THE PASSAGE FROM ONE YEAR TO ANOTHER
Christian hope is not born from the fact that things will “get better”, nor of the consensus reached or the results obtained. It is born from knowing that the truth is not measured by the immediate, but will be judged in the end time. It is in this faithfulness exposed to time and judgment — and not to the success of a season — that it is decided whether a life has been simply lived or truly appreciated as a gift from God.; if the talents received have been made to bear fruit, or buried underground.
At the end of the year the world loves to take stock by measuring results, successes and failures. It is a calming exercise, because it allows life to be judged according to visible and immediately verifiable criteria, at least in appearance.
From a Christian perspective, however, not everything that is measurable is true, and what really decides the quality of an existence often does not coincide with what seems successful in the eyes of the world.. On the path of faith, Not infrequently, true fulfillment takes the form of what the world judges as a failure or failure.. It is the logic of the cross, which the apostle Paul does not mitigate or make acceptable:
"US, instead, we preach Christ crucified, scandal to the Jews and foolishness to the Gentiles." (1 Color 1,23).
This dimension is experienced who are progressively pushed to the margins for not having betrayed their own conscience, nor having renounced the truth. Not by ideological choice, nor due to personal incapacity, but due to a growing incompatibility with practices, the languages and operating criteria of the ecclesial contexts in which they live and operate: systems that reward adaptation, They demand appropriate silences and make those who do not become functional marginal.. Under certain aspects, we could define them like this: the scandalous fools of the cross.
The fools of the cross generate scandal by refusing to twist language to make an objectively unjust decision acceptable. They refuse to define as “pastoral” what is in reality a simple opportunistic management of problems; They reject the anti-evangelical clerical logic of those who confuse fidelity to the Gospel with obedience to the dynamics of the apparatus.. They do not lend themselves to covering long-term omissions with ambiguous formulas, nor do they accept that the softness of the clerics is justified by the shortage of clergy, with organizational urgency or with the appeal to supposed balances that should not be disturbed. They do not adapt to irregular situations presented as inevitable. They do not accept being silenced “so as not to create problems”, nor do they become accomplices of consortiums, mutual protections and reassuring narratives constructed to hide the truth.
In these cases, the reduction to marginality is not the result of a personal error, but the collateral effect of a non-negotiable coherence, almost always read as defeat, as proof of inadequacy or relational incapacity. However, It's not always like that: Sometimes it is simply the price you pay for not having adapted to a system that does not tolerate what you cannot control or use.. This mechanism is neither new nor exclusive to the ecclesiastical sphere.. It is typical of every closed power structure, including mafia organizations, who do not hit those who break the law first, but to those who do not become functional: who does not bend, to those who do not enter the circuit of reciprocal dependencies, who does not accept the language, the silences and complicities required. In these systems, Isolation and marginalization are not accidents, but deliberate instruments of control.
Accept a marginality undefeated is part of the wisdom of the foolishness of the cross and is not equivalent to taking refuge in a resentful niche or cultivating a spirituality of failure.. Very specifically, It means recognizing that not everything that is true finds space in official channels and that not every form of invisibility coincides with a loss.. It's what happens, For example, to those who resign from positions, assignments or visibility as long as they do not sign official documents in which an unjust decision is presented as a “shared pastoral option”. It happens to those who refuse to mask real responsibilities behind false diplomatic formulas, presented as “holy prudence” but in reality functional to opportunistic management of problems. It is the condition of those who continue to work seriously without being promoted because they do not belong to influential cliques.; of those who think and write without being invited because they are not aligned with the dominant narratives; of those who exercise real responsibilities—training, cultural, educational—without official positions or protective memberships, because it does not accept to exchange freedom of judgment for protections or recognitions.
In these cases, invisibility is not the sign of personal failure, but a form of protection: preserves the logic of appearance, escapes the blackmail of consensus, prevents them from being used as instruments. Sometimes, with the passage of time, it is even revealed as a grace, not because it makes life easier, but because it allows us to remain free, integrity and not blackmailable. It is the condition of figures that seem relegated to the margins but not destroyed., considered silenced and yet, precisely for this reason, made more fertile. Scripture knows this dynamic well.. Moses is removed from the public scene and taken to the desert of Midian before being called to free the people (cf. Ex 2,15; 3,1); Elijah flees to the desert, wishes death, and precisely there he learns listening that distances him from the violence of power and the noise of action (cf. 1 Re 19,1-18); John the Baptist is not born nor does he act in the center, but in the desert, far from the official religious circuits, and from there prepare the way of the Lord (cf. Mt 3,1-3; MC 1,2-4; LC 3,1-4). Jesus himself, before every public word and every sign, is driven by the Spirit into the desert, where he explicitly rejects success, immediate effectiveness and crowd consensus (cf. Mt 4,1-11; MC 1,12-13; LC 4,1-13).
The desert, in the biblical and evangelical tradition, It is not the place of uselessness, but of purification: does not produce visibility, but freedom; does not guarantee success, but truth. It is in this space where apparently irrelevant but, who are not really blackmailable, engendered by a fertility that does not depend on immediate recognition, but of fidelity to the truth, of inner freedom and the ability to sustain time without allowing oneself to be corrupted by it.
If you look at the Gospel without anxious pietisms or devotional filters, an elementary fact draws attention: Jesus shows no anxiety to be in the center. On the contrary, when the center is full of people, it escapes from him naturally. Preach to the crowds (cf. Mt 5–7; MC 6,34), but then he leaves (cf. MC 1,35; Jn 6,15); make signs (cf. MC 1,40-45; MC 7,31-37), but recommends silence (cf. MC 1,44; MC 8,26); attracts disciples, but it does not retain those who leave (cf. Jn 6,66-67). In current terms, We could say that he does not care about his own “positioning”. However, no one but him has had an impact on history.
If this evangelical view is assumed, The Beatitudes also cease to be an edifying repertoire that is proclaimed on solemn occasions and return to being what they are in their Christological reality.: a criterion of radical discernment. They do not promise success, no visibility, no approval; on the contrary, describe a form of paradoxical happiness, incompatible with the logic of consensus. The blessed, in the Gospel, They are not the ones who “have made it”, but those who have not changed the truth with applause (cf. Mt 5,1-12).
But along with the Beatitudes, the Gospel preserves with equal clarity the other side of the coin: los “ayes”. harsh words, little cited and rarely commented, perhaps because they disturb an accommodative spirituality. «Woe to you when everyone speaks well of you!» (LC 6,26): a warning that does not seem aimed at scandalous sinners, but to respectable people, appreciated, perfectly integrated. It's as if Jesus was warning against a subtle form of failure.: that of those who obtain consensus at the price of their own inner freedom.
In the Gospel consensus is never a value in itself. Even more, when it becomes unanimous, usually assumes the features of a collective misunderstanding. The crowds cheer, and then disappear (cf. Jn 6,14-15.66); the disciples applaud, and then argue about who is the greatest (cf. MC 9,33-34; LC 22,24); notables recognize, and then distance yourself out of fear or convenience (cf. Jn 12,42-43). Jesus goes through all this without ever letting himself be imprisoned by it.. Does not seek opposition, but he doesn't fear her either; does not despise recognition, but it doesn't chase him. we could say, with a barely visible smile, who never confuses the approval rating with the measure of truth, because the approval rating is in the man, the truth is in God.
It is in this sense how the Gospel exercises an irony as discreet as it is implacable. Precisely those who guard the center — the guarantors of order, correction specialists, “It's always been done this way” professionals—are often the least qualified to recognize what is really happening.. While procedures are discussed, documents are drawn up and balances are invoked that must not be disturbed, faith takes shape elsewhere; while ensuring that nothing leaves the established perimeter, understanding matures off stage; while everything is measured in terms of consensus and opportunity, the truth passes through secondary roads, without asking permission. Not because I love the margins as such, but because — as the Gospel shows with a certain obstinacy — the truth does not allow itself to be administered. And even less can it be certified by the number of consensuses obtained or by the peace of mind that it manages to preserve..
Accept an unconquered marginality, then it does not mean cultivating a taste for the opposition, nor take refuge in a polemical attitude on principle. Means, more simply, stop measuring the value of a life — or a ministry — according to the approval received, the positions obtained or the consensus gathered, according to that logic that the century calls, without shame, hypertrophied narcissism. In concrete terms, means not assuming the number of invitations as a decisive criterion, of recognition or signs of esteem, but the rightness of the decisions made. The Gospel, otherwise, does not ask to be applauded, but be faithful. And this fidelity, not infrequently, is exercised far from the center, where you are less exposed to pressure, freer to look at reality as it is and less obliged to say what is appropriate.
The end of the year often burdened with disproportionate expectations. Final balance sheets are required, conclusive judgments, words capable of fixing everything once and for all. Actually, for those who live with a minimum of inner honesty, this time is not useful to close accounts, but to stop deceiving yourself: not to tell comforting stories, so as not to confuse what has been successful with what has been fair. This is not the time to proclaim goals achieved, but to distinguish the essential from the superfluous, what deserves to be guarded from what can be let go without regrets.
There is a particular freedom that is born precisely here: when it is accepted that not everything must be resolved, clarified or recognized. Some vicissitudes remain open, some unanswered questions, some serious injustices without reparation. But not everything that remains unfinished is sterile.. Sometimes it is simply entrusted to a time that does not coincide with ours. This awareness, far from being a surrender, It is a high form of spiritual realism.
The “sober truth” It is not an internal disposition nor an abstract principle: It is recognized by the price that a person is willing to pay in order not to deny what they have understood to be true.. It manifests itself when you accept losing opportunities, charges or protections as long as they do not resort to linguistic justifications, to accommodating formulas or moral alibis that make presentable what in no case can be presentable: pretend that evil is good and use this lie as a shield against those who try to call evil by its name.
In an ecclesial context in an objectively advanced state of decay, that measures people based on visibility, adaptability and immediate usefulness, This choice has precise consequences, sometimes even devastating. It means continuing to exercise one's own ministry or ecclesial service without being the recipient of appointments., honorary positions or those small concessions with which power flatters and, at the same time, only; without being involved in the decision-making bodies of the diocese or ecclesial institutions; without making oneself available to government logic that requires silence, adaptations or compromises considered inadmissible, because they are paid at a price that no Christian conscience can accept: the sacrifice of the freedom of the children of God, inscribed from the beginning in the same mystery of the creation of man. Means, Finally, accept that one's own contribution remains unrewarded and relegated to the margins, not because it's useless, but because it is not usable in the circuits that have; and, however, intended, in the silence of the desert, to be a seed that bears fruit.
Persevere, in this sense, It is not a form of obstinacy nor an identity posture built to distinguish oneself.. It is the decision to remain faithful to what has been recognized as true even when this fidelity entails silence., loss of role and lack of recognition.
in the step from one year to the next it is not asked to make consoling balances, but to look at what remains when time has consumed illusions, roles and justifications. The decisions remain, the words said or silent, responsibilities assumed or avoided. This, and nothing more, It is the material that passes through time.
Christian hope It is not born from the fact that things “will get better.”, nor of the consensus reached or the results obtained. It is born from knowing that the truth is not measured by the immediate, but will be judged in the end time. It is in this faithfulness exposed to time and judgment — and not in the success of a season — that it is decided whether a life has been simply lived or truly appreciated as a gift from God.; if the talents received have been made to bear fruit, or buried underground.
From the Island of Patmos, 31 December 2025
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THE DIGNITY OF UNOVERCOME MARGINALITY IN THE TRANSITION FROM ONE YEAR TO ANOTHER
Christian hope does not come from expectation, that things will “get better”, nor the consensus gathered or the results achieved. It comes from knowledge, that truth is not measured by the immediate, but will be judged in the final judgment. It is in this loyalty exposed to the passage of time and the court - and not in the success of a season - that the decision is made, whether a life was merely lived or truly preserved as a gift from God; whether the talents received were made fruitful or buried in the earth.
At the end of the year the world tends to, to take stock, by getting results, Measures successes and failures. It's a calming exercise, because it allows, to judge life according to visible and seemingly immediately verifiable criteria.
From a Christian perspective However, not everything is, what is measurable, true, and that, what actually determines the quality of an existence, often does not coincide with this, what appears to be successful in the eyes of the world. On the path of faith, true fulfillment often takes the form of this, what the world judges as failure and failure. This is the logic of the cross, which the apostle Paul neither weakens nor makes acceptable:
“We, on the other hand, proclaim Christ crucified, a nuisance for Jews, foolishness to Gentiles.” (1 Kor 1,23).
This dimension is lived by those, who are gradually finding themselves marginalized, because they have not betrayed their conscience and have not renounced the truth. Not because of an ideological decision, not because of personal incompetence, but due to an increasing incompatibility with practices, Language forms and functional criteria of church contexts, in which they live and work: systems, reward adaptation, demand opportune silence and marginalize those, that cannot be functionalized. From a certain point of view you could call them that: the scandalous gates of the cross.
The gates of the cross cause offense, by refusing, to bend the language, to make an objectively unfair decision appear acceptable. They refuse it, to be described as “pastoral”., which in reality is nothing other than opportunistic problem management; they reject anti-evangelical clerical logics, who confuse fidelity to the gospel with obedience to apparatus dynamics. They don't get involved, to cover up long-standing failures with ambiguous formulas, nor accept them, that the laxity of clergy with a shortage of priests, organizational urgency or with reference to alleged balances, which should not be disturbed. They do not adapt to irregular situations that are presented as inevitable, they cannot be silenced “so as not to cause problems”, nor do they make themselves accomplices of cliques, mutual protection mechanisms and reassuring stories, that serve this purpose, to hide the truth.
In such cases the reduction to marginality is not the result of a personal mistake, but the side effect of non-negotiable coherence, which is almost always a defeat, is read as a sign of inadequacy or relational incompetence. But that's not always the case: Sometimes it's simply the price, not having adapted to a system, that is not tolerated, what it can neither control nor utilize. This mechanism is neither new nor limited to the church sector. It is typical of any closed power structure, including criminal organizations, who don't meet those first, who break the law, but those, that cannot be made functional: those, who do not bow, that do not enter into the cycle of mutual dependencies, the language, Do not accept silence and required complicity. In such systems, isolation and marginalization are not accidents, but conscious instruments of control.
A marginality that has not been overcome to accept belongs to the wisdom of the folly of the cross and means neither, to retreat into a resentful niche, nor to cultivate a spirituality of failure. In concrete terms, this means recognizing, that not everything that is true finds a place in the official channels and that not every form of invisibility can be equated with loss. This is evident, for example, with those, the ones on wheels, To forego office or visibility, not to sign any official documents, in which an unjust decision is presented as a “shared pastoral option”.. It shows with them, who refuse, to hide real responsibilities behind false diplomatic formulas, which are passed off as “holy wisdom”., In reality, however, they serve to manage problems opportunistically. It is the situation of those, who continue to work seriously, without being promoted, because they do not belong to any influential clique; that one, who think and write, without being invited, because they do not conform to the dominant narratives; that one, bear real responsibility — in education, Culture and education — without official positions or protective affiliations, because they are not ready, to exchange freedom of judgment for protection or recognition.
In these cases Invisibility is not a sign of personal failure, but a form of protection: It protects us from the logic of appearances, removes the blackmail pressure of consensus and prevents it, to be instrumentalized. Sometimes over time it even turns out to be a mercy - not because it makes life easier, but because it allows, frei, to remain with integrity and not subject to blackmail. It is the situation of figures, who appear marginalized, without being destroyed, are considered to be silenced and become more fruitful as a result. Scripture knows this dynamic well. Moses is removed from the public stage and led into the desert of Midian, before he is called, to liberate the people (cf. Ex 2,15; 3,1); Elijah flees into the desert, wishes death, and it is precisely there that he learns to listen, that removes him from the violence of power and the noise of action (cf. 1 Gender 19,1–18); John the Baptist is neither born nor active in the center, but in the desert, far from official religious circles, and from there he prepares the way of the Lord (cf. Mt 3,1–3; Mk 1,2–4; Lk 3,1–4). Jesus himself will, even before every public word and every sign, driven into the desert by the spirit, where he expressly succeeds, immediate effectiveness and the applause of the crowd (cf. Mt 4,1–11; Mk 1,12–13; Lk 4,1–13).
The desert is not the place of uselessness in the biblical and evangelical tradition, but of cleaning: It does not create visibility, but freedom; it does not guarantee success, but truth. In this space, figures mature, that appear irrelevant on the outside, actually cannot be blackmailed, produced by a fertility, which does not depend on immediate recognition, but from loyalty to the truth, of inner freedom and ability, to stand the test of time, without being corrupted by it.
Looking at the gospel without anxious pietism and without a devotional filter, an elementary finding stands out: Jesus shows no fear, to be in the center. On the contrary: When the center fills up, he withdraws from it as a matter of course. He preaches to the crowds (cf. Mt 5–7; Mk 6,34), but then withdraws (cf. Mk 1,35; Joh 6,15); he works signs (cf. Mk 1,40–45; Mk 7,31–37), however, recommends silence (cf. Mk 1,44; Mk 8,26); he attracts disciples, but doesn't hold on to it, who go away (cf. Joh 6,66–67). In today's language you could say, he doesn’t care about his own “positioning”. And yet no one has shaped history more than him.
If you take this evangelical one Take a look, the beatitudes also stop, to be an uplifting repertoire for celebratory occasions, and will do that again, what they are in their Christological reality: a radical criterion of distinction. They promise neither success, visibility nor approval; rather, they describe a paradoxical form of happiness, which is incompatible with the logic of consensus. The blessed in the Gospel are not those, who “made it”, but those, who have not exchanged the truth for applause (cf. Mt 5,1–12).
In addition to the Beatitudes However, the Gospel also preserves the other side of the coin with the same clarity: the “woeful cries”. Harsh words, little quoted and rarely commented on, perhaps because they disrupt a comfortable spirituality. “Woe to you, when all people praise you.” (Page 6,26): a reminder, which does not seem to be aimed at scandalous sinners, but to respectable ones, estimated, fully integrated people. It is, as if Jesus was warning about a subtle form of failure: that one, in which consensus is bought at the price of one's own inner freedom.
In the gospel Consensus is never a value in itself. More than that: When he becomes unanimous, it often takes on the characteristics of a collective misunderstanding. The crowds cheer, and then disappear (cf. Joh 6,14–15.66); the disciples applaud, and then argue about it, who is the greatest (cf. Mk 9,33–34; Page 22,24); the notables recognize, only to distance themselves out of fear or expediency (cf. Joh 12,42–43). Jesus goes through all of this, without ever letting yourself be captured by it. He doesn't seek opposition, But don't be afraid of them either; he does not despise recognition, but don't chase after her. You could say with barely a hint of a smile, that he never confuses approval ratings with the measure of truth, because approval values lie in people, the truth lies in God.
The gospel practices in this sense an irony that is as discreet as it is relentless. Just those, who occupy the center - the guarantors of order, the specialists of correctness, the “we’ve always done it this way” pros — often turn out to be the least capable, to recognize what is actually happening. While discussing procedures, Writes documents and conjures balances, which must not be disturbed, faith takes shape elsewhere; while paying attention, that nothing leaves the established framework, understanding matures outside the stage; while everything is measured in categories of consensus and opportunity, the truth takes byways, without asking permission. Not because she loves the edges as such, but because - as the Gospel shows with a certain persistence - the truth cannot be managed. And even less can it be certified by the number of approvals achieved or by the peace of conscience, that can be preserved.
A marginality that has not been overcome So accepting doesn't mean, to cultivate a preference for opposition or to take refuge in a polemical stance out of principle. Rather, it means, to stop, the value of a life — or a service — after the consent received, the positions achieved or the consensus gathered, according to that logic, which the age unashamedly calls hypertrophic narcissism. That means specifically, not the number of invitations, to make recognition or appreciation the decisive criterion, but the honesty of the decisions made. After all, the gospel doesn’t require it, to be cheered, but to be faithful. And this loyalty is often lived far from the center, where you are exposed to less pressure, can see reality more freely than that, what she is, and is less forced, to say that, whatever seems appropriate.
The turn of the year often comes with disproportionate ones Expectations charged. Definitive balance sheets are required, final judgments, words, who are supposed to sort everything out once and for all. In reality, this time is for the, who lives with a minimum of inner honesty, not to that, to close invoices, but to stop cheating: to no longer tell each other comforting stories, not to be confused, which was successful, with the, which was fair. It's not the moment, to declare stage victories, but to distinguish the essential from the superfluous, what is to be preserved from that, what can be let go without regret.
A special freedom arises here: if you accept, that not everything is solved, needs to be clarified or acknowledged. Some processes remain open, some questions unanswered, some serious acts of injustice without reparation. But not everything unfinished is sterile. Sometimes it is simply entrusted to a time, which does not coincide with ours. This awareness is far from it, to be a surrender; it is a high form of spiritual realism.
The “sober truth” is neither an internal disposition nor an abstract principle: You can recognize them by the price, that a person is willing to pay, not to contradict that, what he knew to be true. She shows herself, when you are ready, Opportunities, Losing offices or protection, instead of linguistic justifications, to resort to appeasing formulas or moral alibis, that make something presentable, which it cannot be under any circumstances: to do so, as if evil were good, and to use this lie as a shield against them, who try, to call evil by its name.
In a church context, which is objectively in an advanced state of decay and people are craving visibility, adaptability and immediate usefulness, has this decision concrete, sometimes even devastating consequences. She means, to continue carrying out one’s own church ministry or mission, without recipients of appointments, Honorary positions or those small concessions, with which power flatters and subdues at the same time; without being involved in the decision-making bodies of the diocese or church institutions; without making themselves available to government logic, the silence, Require adjustment or compromise, that are deemed inadmissible, because they are bought at a price, which no Christian conscience can accept: the sacrifice of the freedom of God's children, which is inscribed from the beginning in the mystery of man's creation. She means after all, to accept, that one's own contribution remains without rewards and is pushed to the margins, not because it is useless, but because it cannot be used in the relevant cycles; and yet destined to do so, to be a seed in the silence of the desert, who bears fruit.
In that sense Staying put is neither a form of stubbornness nor an identity pose, which was constructed for demarcation. It's the decision, to stay true to that, what you know to be true, even if this loyalty is silent, Loss of role and lack of recognition.
In transition from one year to the next is not required, to draw comforting conclusions, but to look at it, what remains, when time illusions, Roles and justifications have been consumed. The decisions made remain, the words spoken or left silent, the responsibilities assumed or avoided. This is - and nothing else - the material, that traverses time.
Christian hope does not come from expectation, that things will “get better”, nor the consensus gathered or the results achieved. It comes from knowledge, that truth is not measured by the immediate, but will be judged in the final judgment. It is in this loyalty exposed to the passage of time and the court - and not in the success of a season - that the decision is made, whether a life was merely lived or truly preserved as a gift from God; whether the talents received were made fruitful or buried in the earth.
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ROBERTO BENIGNI'S STONE: THE PRIMARY OF FRAGILE LOVE
It is the journey of a man who only knew how to say "I love you" and that, through grace and pain, learn to say “I love you” — no longer with words, but with his cross.
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The interpretation Pietro a man in the wind presented last night at the Vatican Gardens by Roberto Benigni, he did not take long to bring to mind the lessons of contemporary French phenomenology. Jean-Luc Marion warns us that Revelation is not an object to be dominated, but a “saturated phenomenon”, an event that exceeds our ability to understand. The risk of the modern exegete is to transform the text into an idol: a mirror that reflects one's own creativity more than the face of God[1]. but yet, something surprising happens with this monologue. Now Ten CommandmentsBenigni sometimes risked letting his creativity prevail over the text, here he makes a decisive step: what Paul Ricoeur calls the “second naivety”[2]. Benign not usaplus the text, but he leaves usefrom the text. We have therefore witnessed the triumph of the text over the interpreter, as if Benigni had become, fully for the first time, useless servant of the Word: does not offer images, but he receives them. It doesn't impose a color, but it allows itself to be coloured. The result is a "totally shareable" Peter because he is not the Peter of the myth, but rather the Peter of salvation history: fragile, contradictory, loved.
Hans Urs von Balthasar showed how the theological beauty of Christ lies in kenosis: emptying. Peter is the first to enter, but he does it “in the manner of man”: stumbling, wrong, always coming back[3]. His every greatness is followed by a fall: confesses the divinity of Christ in Caesarea Philippi ("You are the Christ, the Son of the living God ": Mt 16,16); immediately after he is called "Satan" («Go after me, Satan! You are a scandal to me": Mt 16,23); promises absolute loyalty at the Last Supper ("I will give my life for you": GV 13,37); a few hours later he renounces the Master ("I don't know him": Mt 26,72-74).
Roberto Benigni does not mitigate these contradictions: uses them as a key to understanding. Peter is the icon of the Church that does not preach itself, but Christ, precisely because he knows he is not Christ. The rock that the Evangelist Matthew talks about (cf.. 16,18) it is not Simone's will, but the faith of Peter: a faith mixed with weakness.
The highest point of interpretation — captured by Benigni with theological finesse — is the dialogue taken from the Chapter 21 of the Gospel of John in which Jesus asks: "Simon, son of John, what is (agapas-me)?». Peter replies: "Man, I love you (philo-se)». Peter is not capable of total love: offers what it has, not what he doesn't have. At that point Christ descends to his level, but he does it to elevate it.
History takes place on the Cross: Peter finally passes by there phileoa agape. It is Bonhoeffer's “grace at a high price”.: you become what you are called to be through the wound, not through triumph.
Peter's true primacy is this: transform a fragile love into a total love. He didn't become the first Pope because he was the best, but because he was the most forgiven. The episode of quo Vadisand the upside-down crucifixion are not folklore: they are the signature of his vocation. The Eucharist received and the washing of the feet undergone germinate years later, in the total gift of life. Peter teaches that Christian love is not a starting point but a point of arrival.
It is the journey of a man who only knew how to say "I love you" is that, through grace and pain, learn to say “I love you” — no longer with words, but with his cross.
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[1]See. J.L.. Marion, Given. Essay on a phenomenology of donation, Paris 1997, randomly: the concept of "saturated phenomenon" describes Revelation as an event that exceeds any grasp of the ego, escaping the logic of the idol.
[2] See. Paul Ricoeur, Finitude and guilt. (II). The symbolism of evil, Trad.. en. Brescia 1970; or The conflict of interpretations(1969), where Ricoeur describes the “second naivety” as the recovery of meaning after criticism.
[3] See. Hans Urs von Balthasar, Gloria. A theological aesthetic, vol. I: The perception of form, Trad.. it., Milan, Jaca Book 1975 (orig. glory, I: Look at the figure, Einsiedeln 1961), in particular on kenosis as a revelation of the divine form in weakness.
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In the diverse digital zoo a singular creature lives: Marco Perfetti, known as Mr. I can not remain silent. A character who proclaims himself an expert on Vatican matters and a champion of the truth, while he spends his days insulting the members of the Communications Department, accused of every worst atrocity; to publish confidential documents illicitly stolen from who knows which desks of the Vicariate of Rome, without being able to make use of either the right to report or the protection of sources; to insult seasoned professional journalists, to the point of publicly mocking their physical form; to target the President of the Governorate of the Vatican City State, publishing on sociala photograph manipulated into appearing like a domestic servant; to confer the title of "hags" on bishops and cardinals and so on...
He recently took it out on the theologian Andrea Grillo (see video WHO), with which one might even completely disagree, with respect to some of his positions taken, for example in the matter of sacred orders to be conferred on women, but who deserves the respect due to a prepared person of undoubted culture, as well as being a truly gifted teacher for teaching.
Perfetti likes to boast that "no one has ever sued him", therefore what I say is right. Of course: it is difficult to waste time and money on legal expenses with those who first of all have nothing to lose in terms of assets and who, for intellectual depth and emotional maturity, remembers a child playing with matches in the kindergarten playroom. It's best to keep an eye on it for safety, undoubtedly, but certainly not to seriously argue with him.
A few months ago Mr. Silere had the brilliant idea of asking the Rome Police Headquarters for my warning for having responded to his usual aggressions disguised as digital moralism. I was summoned and informed of the request made, to which I responded by filing a defense statement which precisely reconstructs the facts, character's circumstances and method.
Now, whereas Mr. To be silent he did not hesitate to publish confidential documents illegally removed from the curia offices by some of his associates, I find it legitimate to publish my memoir, which contains no stolen documents, but only verifiable facts, together with a public document available online: the ruling of the Court of Cassation that in 2022 rejected for the third time an appeal by Perfetti himself against his parents, sued by him and dragged to the courts, dove Mr. Silere lost in all three levels of judgment.
This is the profile of the digital moralizer which claims free license to insult while claiming to warn anyone who dares deny it.
If after reading someone would ask themselves why a priest and a theologian should waste time responding to such a character, the answer is simple: for the same reason why you put a mosquito net in the summer. Not because the mosquito is important, but because its buzz becomes annoying.
the Island of Patmos, 10 December 2025
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The day 17 September 2025 the Judicial Police of the Rome Police Headquarters notified the undersigned Stefano Ariel Levi from Gualdo, Catholic priest, resident in Rome in via XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX, a request for a warning at the request of Mr. Marco Perfetti, to which we reply hereby:
DEFENSIVE MEMORY
Mr. Perfect, through his blog I can not remain silent, he repeatedly insulted high prelates, prefects of dicasteries of the Holy See, lay people serving in the Roman Curia, diocesan bishops and various priests who, like myself, they have repeatedly publicly denied or rebuked him. My responses have always been formulated without resorting to personal insults, but exercising the legitimate right of criticism, sometimes with strong replies, other times ironic, but always within the limits of what is permitted and respect for the person or opponent.
Mr. Perfect, also in light of the request for a warning made towards me, instead he seems convinced that he possesses a sort of license to insult - sometimes even violent and repeated - perhaps feeling immune from any criticism and going so far as to present himself as a victim every time someone dares to contradict him.
ON ALLEGATIONS OF VERBAL OFFENSES
Mr. Perfetti complains that I called him a "poisonous slimeball", "annoying subject", "poisonous speck".
Let's clarify: single words or phrases cannot be extrapolated from articulated polemical contexts, born following his attacks on people and institutions of the Church and certainly not due to my provocation. In fact, it is within these contexts that some of my replies have been made with an understandably critical tone.
THE EXTRAPOLATION OF WORDS
Extrapolate words from their contexts can lead to major problems and, wanting, in certain cases, also great intellectual dishonesty.
Exhaustive example: in the Old Testament Psalm n. 52 recital: «The fool thinks: “God does not exist”». It is a short phrase but full of meaning that is articulated within a precise and complex historical-narrative text. However, if we proceed with a "wild" extrapolation we could say that the Bible is a text that promotes atheism, given that it is stated in it: «God does not exist».
The total alteration of the text, distorted and distorted, it is therefore evident. This is an example with which we intended to clarify that what Mr. Perfetti complains is the result of obvious extrapolations.
THE CONTINUOUS ATTACKS ON CARDINAL MAURO GAMBETTI
the CardinalMauro Gambetti, Archpriest of the Papal Basilica of St. Peter, he is one of several eminent figures publicly pilloried by the articles of I can not remain silent. The articles published against him over the last two years amount to 67, all gathered under his name, as per the reference below:
In these 67 articles the Cardinal is labeled a "liar", "incompetent and incompetent", guilty - according to him - of having hired "friends without art or role" in the Papal Basilica, of having transformed it "into a money-making machine" for the benefit of his coteries. The entire collection of articles can be found at this link:
The articles that can be viewed which constitute clear evidence of Mr.'s way of expressing himself. There are dozens of perfect ones, for this reason I limit myself to citing one as a sample, where the Cardinal is publicly accused of being "a liar" who "commits spiritual and conscience abuses":
Clarification needed: those who are not familiar with our ecclesiastical circles may be unaware that abusing consciences is one of the worst accusations that can be made against an ecclesiastic, because among the sERIOUS oFFENSES (the serious crimes contained in the Code of Canon Law) worse than abuse of conscience are only public apostasy from the faith and the terrible crime of pedophilia.
THE CONTINUOUS AND VIOLENT ATTACKS ON THE DEPARTMENT FOR COMMUNICATIONS
institution of the Holy See targeted by Mr. Perfect is the Dicastery for Communications, directed by Dr. Paolo Ruffini (Prefect), by Dr. Andrea Tornielli (Director of Vatican Media), by Dr. Matteo Bruni (Director of the Vatican Press Office and official spokesperson of the Supreme Pontiff), all indicated, two years now, by Mr. Perfect, as "illiterate", "Incapaci", «ignorant», «incompetent», «highly paid to do damage».
In a separate folder I attach a collection of 25 articles, particularly aggressive, published on I can not remain silent in order to clarify and provide evidence to the competent authority in charge of the objective levels of verbal violence with which Mr. Perfetti attacked, insulted and publicly mocked these people responsible for running the Communications Department, to the point of combining their names with references to mafia associations, corruption and illicit favouritism.
THE VILLAGED DOMICILIATION IN THE VATICAN
On his social channels, Mr. Perfetti indicates lo as domiciliation Vatican City State.
Consider the excellent institutional relations between the Italian law enforcement forces and those of the Vatican City State, I suppose that a simple phone call to this Police Headquarters would be enough Command of the Vatican Gendarmerie to ascertain that Mr. Perfect, far from being domiciled in the Vatican with his own blog and social media, he cannot even enter within his territory, because declared unwelcome person following the insults that he has continuously published for years towards people and institutions of the Holy See.
From the stabs of Mr. Perfect few were saved, Among those targeted, there was also no shortage of soldiers from the Vatican Gendarmerie, they were also accused of being professionally incapable and incompetent, as can be seen from this article:
Added to this is the fact that in numerous of his videos released online Mr. Perfect — that, as explained, it cannot even come close to the Vatican territory – he begins by stating: «because here in the Vatican… we in the Vatican…», thus boasting to simple and uninformed people that they have internal contacts and institutional knowledge at the highest levels.
The various videos mentioned here can be viewed at this link:
THE FALSE ACCUSATION OF HAVING MADE HIS DOMICILE OF RESIDENCE PUBLIC
To the accusation made against me of having published Mr.'s domicile and residence address on the Facebook platform. Perfect, I reply and firmly deny: I don't know where he lives, nor have I ever been interested in knowing.
However, I am aware that several lawyers have had difficulty finding it, having received an assignment to proceed with complaints against him, including several journalists, among which I mention XXXXXXXXXXXXX, Vatican correspondent of XXXXXXXXXXX, followed by various other colleagues.
Also confidentially, I was also told by some directly interested parties that recently, the lawyer's office. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX has received a mandate to proceed with a complaint against him. However, as has already happened to other law firms previously, he also had difficulty getting the documents served because Mr. Perfect is not available.
This led several lawyers to contact the competent offices with a reasoned request to find his address, where - again according to what was reported by those directly involved - not even a private home was found, but a series of warehouses and the headquarters of a Tax Assistance Centre (CAF).
I am aware of everything because two lawyers, having read some of my denial articles about false and biased news spread by Mr. Perfect, they contacted me to ask if I knew where he lived. I replied that I had no idea where in Italy he lived, much less at what address.
How much Mr. Perfetti complains about the dissemination of his address by me and therefore a falsehood which is then accompanied by the accusation of victimization according to which, because of me, he would even have to "change his lifestyle habits" (!).
Added to his proven unavailability for the notification of judicial documents is the fact that, in the blog I can not remain silent, is indicated via Scalia 10/B (Rome) as the "headquarters" of the "editorial team". Even in this case, however, there is no editorial office or blog headquarters at that address.
THE FALSE ACCUSATION OF BELONGING TO A “HOMOSEXUALIST LOBBY”
Mr. Perfetti complains that I would have accused him of "belonging to a homosexualist lobby".
A clear and necessary premise: the trends, Mr.'s sexual habits and preferences. Perfect (or anyone else) fall within the full and legitimate exercise of personal freedoms, if necessary also protected by law.
This doesn't take away, however, that - as a priest and theologian - he can express, with full legitimacy, of deep reservations regarding the total inappropriateness of admitting people with deep-rooted homosexual tendencies to the priesthood. These are not personal opinions, but of a principle sanctioned by Catholic doctrine and reiterated in official Church documents.
The reason is clear: the ecclesiastical environment is an entirely male context and for those who freely vow celibacy and chastity, the admission of subjects with homosexual inclinations represents an unsuitable situation neither to the priestly state nor to those who share its community life. In other words: excluding homosexuals from the priesthood means protecting the homosexual himself first and foremost.
I have never attacked individual homosexuals nor discriminated against the so-called LGBT communities. If anything I addressed political criticism, legitimate and motivated, to certain associations that intend to impose their cultural and legislative agenda.
In this regard I remember that I am the author of a book written “co-authored” with the Capuchin theologian Father Ivano Liguori, in which we contested the bill proposed by the Hon. Alessandro Zan regarding homotransphobia. In that text, we noted the serious risk of turning the right to opinion and criticism into a crime; a risk that was also forcefully denounced by authoritative openly homosexual personalities, like the Senator Tommaso Cerno, former national president of Arcigay and today journalist and editor-in-chief of Time.
As for the issue of “private life”, I have repeatedly denied Mr. Perfect, who in his articles and videos stated that any homosexual tendencies of candidates for the priesthood or priests already ordained would only concern their private sphere and would not be questionable.
To refute this misleading thesis, I'll use a clear example: even a magistrate has a private life and has the right to have it, but he certainly couldn't sentence a dangerous mafioso to maximum security prison morning and evening, in his “private life”, go to dinner with Camorra clan leaders. The same principle applies to the priest: he never ceases to be so, neither in the public nor in the private sector, nor can he live in contradiction to his own clerical status, both in the public and private sectors.
Every time I recalled this elementary ecclesial and moral principle, Mr.. Perfetti tried to turn the question around, insinuating accusations of “gender discrimination” Do mtake comparisons.
THE PROBLEM OF HOMOSEXUALITY AND THE CASE OF FATHER AMEDEO CENCINI
Mr. Perfect he is no stranger to concocting artificial events, aimed at hitting people he doesn't like. To do it, often, uses particularly sensitive and delicate topics today, such as the issue of homosexuality or gender diversity.
An emblematic case is that of Father Amedeo Cencini, priest of the Canossian Congregation and esteemed specialist in psychology, trainer and author of numerous essays of theological and pastoral relevance. The 23 March 2021 Mr.. Perfetti forwarded one formal reporting to the Order of Psychologists of Veneto, contesting some of the priest's articles and conferences which he deemed "offensive to homosexuals".
The Supervisory Commission of the Regional Order, following the established procedures, opened the file, listened to the parties and summoned both the accusing party (Perfect) is the accused (Cencini). At the end of the investigation, in data 18 July 2021, pronounced this sentence: "There were no hypotheses of violation of the code of ethics". The proceeding was therefore definitively closed on 22 November 2021.
The episode received coverage in the press and a well-known Catholic weekly reported on the story, underlining how the accusation had been judged inconsistent and unfounded. The same article also reported Mr.'s reaction. Perfect, that, seeing himself blamed, he went so far as to say:
«Italy is a Republic that does not know what justice is […] a country that basically makes you laugh".
This statement, eloquent in itself, once again confirms his constant attitude: when he doesn't get it right, uses inappropriate and delegitimizing tones towards individual people, the institutions, the judiciary, professional bodies, ecclesiastical bodies and so on.
there, so, the recurring model: reckless and specious accusations, spent largely on sensitive topics (homosexuality, abuse of conscience, etc.), which then result in archiving, but after causing stress, damage to the image and waste of time of the people targeted.
A PROBLEM PERSONALITY WHO SUE HIS PARENTS TO COURT
The obvious behavioral and character problems One part. Perfetti are clearly confirmed by a ruling from the Supreme Court of Cassation, the n. 23132/2022 the 28 June 2022.
In fact, from reading the motivation in its entirety, one thing emerges: clear and unequivocal picture of his highly litigious nature. Mr. In fact, Perfetti went so far as to sue his own parents, dragging them into a civil trial in which he obtained an unfavorable outcome already at first instance. I don't pay, he appealed: even at second instance the judges confirmed the unfoundedness of his claim. A quel point, despite two rulings to the contrary, appealed to the Supreme Court, where what had already been established in the two merit judgments was reiterated and fully confirmed in the legitimacy judgment.
The end result is that Mr. Perfect lost in all three levels of judgment, thus revealing the recklessness of the lawsuit brought against their own parents.
This ruling is not a confidential document, on the contrary it is a public act freely available online. Simply type «Marco Perfetti complaints» on the Google search engine, where this link appears among the various entries:
Clicking on the link opens the PDF document containing the complete reasoning for the sentence, with the appellant's name and surname clearly legible on the search engine, as in the photographic image of the Google page reproduced here.
If Mr. Perfetti should consider its right to privacy violated or otherwise, you can always contact Google directly and ask for the document to be removed or obscured. However, it cannot be attributed to the undersigned the responsibility of referring between these lines to what is in the public domain and available to anyone online.
This procedural matter, which sees a child take his parents to the last stage of judgment and then always emerge defeated, is indicative of level of personal conflict which characterizes Mr. Perfect and which is also reflected in his relationships with other individuals and institutions.
THE BLOG "I CAN'T BE SILENT": THE TRIUMPH OF ANONYMITY AND THE CASE OF THE DIOCESE OF ASCOLI PICENO
In light of what has been documented so far, appears as evident as the blog I can not remain silent, managed by Mr. Perfect, represent a poisoned and poisoning communicative place. What distinguishes it is not just the violent tone, offensive and defamatory, but also aparticularly significant aggravating circumstance: the systematic publication of anonymous articles.
Your tale blog, indeed, write subjects who they don't have the courage to expose themselves with their name and surname, thus escaping personal responsibility for what they declare and spread. This Modus Operandiit is all the more serious as anonymous accusations and attacks are often directed at people and ecclesiastical institutions, with the clear intention of delegitimizing them without the accuser assuming any public responsibility.
This is not just my opinion: also there Episcopal Curia of the Diocese of Ascoli Piceno has deemed it necessary to intervene recently to protect its Bishop, S. AND. Mons. Giampiero Palmieri, repeatedly the target of attacks on the blog I can not remain silent, regarding which the Curia complains in unequivocal words in an official note:
«[…] a news blog not even registered as a newspaper that mainly writes gossip, also ecclesiastical, to feed his bubble of readers. We remind you that in this blog many articles do not contain the name of the person writing the pieces... and therefore, objectively, it doesn't come out".
The entire text of the note can be consulted at the following address:
This official position confirms that not just individual people, but even entire ecclesiastical institutions were forced to publicly denounce the unreliability and irresponsibility of the blog directed by Mr.. Perfect, underlining how it feeds on gossip and anonymous accusations, very far from the criteria of correct and serious information. All with now consolidated results: Mr.. Perfetti threatened to sue the Diocese "for false and defamatory statements":
THE MANAGER OF AN ANONYMOUS BLOG ASKS TO WARN AN EDITOR RESPONSIBLE FOR A REGULARLY REGISTERED MAGAZINE
Contrary to Mr. Perfect, manager of a gossip blog with a clerical flavor based on anonymous articles and devoid of any legal recognition, the undersigned may qualify as editor in chief of a magazine for all legal purposes, being registered as such with the Order of Journalists of Lazio and paying the required annual taxes.
The magazine The Island of Patmos, founded by me in 2014 together with the theologians and priests Antonio Livi and Giovanni Cavalcoli, is now made up of an editorial staff of eight priests, all fully identifiable, who sign their articles with their name and surname. Each editor is also publicly presented on the official page of the magazine, where biographical notes and curricula are available.
The magazine is duly registered both in the Press Register of the Court of Rome and in the Register of specialized magazines of the Order of Journalists. This implies that, in addition to carrying out the journalistic activity in accordance with the law, as the responsible director I can appeal to the right to the press, at the source protection and to all those guarantees provided by the legal system for an officially recognized newspaper.
None of this can however be attributed to a blog like I can not remain silent, which is neither a registered newspaper nor does it have a responsible editor. Nevertheless, under the heading “who we are”, Mr.. Perfetti presents it in these terms:
These self-congratulatory statements fly in the face of the evidence: a blog run by an individual, populated by anonymous authors and devoid of legal recognition cannot in any way boast the credibility and protections that belong to registered newspapers.
In this sense,, the paradox is evident: a managing director registered with the Order of Journalists is subjected to a request for a warning from Mr. Perfect, responsible for a blog that hurls constant insults at anyone through the dissemination of writings published anonymously and which through them continues to spread defamatory content without those responsible assuming the slightest public or legal responsibility, while stating «in a context in which journalism risks losing credibility».
Conclusions
I conclude this paper by recalling a historical-political fact. During the twenty years of fascism, a socio-pedagogical technique was adopted, summarized by the well-known phrase: "Hit one to educate a hundred", sometimes paraphrased even more harshly: «Scare one to silence a hundred».
I fear that this is the probable true motive of yet another action undertaken by Mr. Perfect: attempt to attack a publicly exposed person - a priest and an editor in chief of a newspaper - to intimidate and discourage others from opposing his polemical and aggressive style.
But today, thanks to our greats Founding Fathers, we are citizens and associates of Italian Republic, a rule of law based on democratic principles, where similar logics do not and cannot have citizenship.
For this reason I firmly reject the unfounded accusations made against me, demonstrating - with the documents and evidence attached - the systematic nature of the defamatory action conducted by Mr. Perfect. What is asked here is not a personal privilege, but the protection of the principle of truth and justice which must guide the actions of anyone exercising freedom of expression, especially if this freedom is intertwined with the duty of correct information.
I therefore remain at the disposal of the competent Authority, trusting that the assessments are carried out not in light of false accusations, or extrapolated and distorted, but of the objective and documented facts presented here.
Rome, there 6 October 2025
Ariel S. Levi di Gualdo, presbyter Editor in charge of the magazine The Island of Patmos
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LOST TIME AND THE ETERNAL PRESENT: AGOSTINO FOR THE TIME-HUNGRY CONTEMPORARY MAN
The past is no more, the future is not yet. It would seem that only the present exists. But the present is also problematic. If it had a duration, it would be divisible into a before and an after, therefore i would no longer be present. The present, to be such, it must be an instant without extension, a vanishing point between what is no longer and what is not yet. But how can something that has no duration constitute the reality of time?
Contemporary society lives a schizophrenic relationship with time. On one side, it is the most precious asset, a perennially scarce resource.
Our life is marked by busy agendas, pressing deadlines and the overwhelming feeling of "never having time". Efficiency, the speed, the optimization of every moment have become the new categorical imperatives of a humanity that runs breathlessly, anxiously often without knowing the destination. Man today is hungry for time, a hunger that today seems to increasingly take up space in the soul and spirit. Indeed, often the hunger for time visibly affects the most fragile, with the many generalized anxiety syndromes, panic attacks and other mental pathologies. Paradoxically, on the other side, this longed-for and measured time escapes us, it dissolves into a series of commitments that leave a feeling of emptiness, of incompleteness. In the era of instant connection, we are increasingly disconnected from the present, projected towards a future that never arrives or anchored to a past that cannot be changed. We are rich in moments, but poor in time lived.
This experience of fragmentation and anguish was lucidly analyzed by the philosopher Martin Heidegger, almost a century ago. For the German philosopher, human existence (the To be there, l’being-there) it is intrinsically temporal. Man does not "have" time, but "it is" time. Our existence is a «be-for-death», a continuous projection towards the future, aware of being finite people, limited and not eternal. Authentic time, per Heidegger, it is not the homogeneous sequence of moments measured by the clock (called "vulgar" time), but the openness to the three dimensions of existence: the future (the project), the past (being-thrown) and the present (de-jection in the world). Anguish in the face of death and one's limitations, so, it's not a negative feeling to escape, but the condition that can reveal to us the possibility of an authentic life, in which man takes ownership of his own temporality and his own finite destiny[1].
Although profound, however, this analysis remains horizontal, confined in the immanence of an existence that ends with death. The horizon is nothingness. This is where the Christian reflection, e, in particular, the genius of Saint Augustine of Hippo, opens up a radically different perspective: vertical, transcendent[2]. Augustine does not limit himself to describing the experience of time, but he questions it until it becomes a way to question God. In this question, discovers that the solution to the riddle of time is not found in time itself, but outside of it, in the Eternity that founds and redeems him.
In Book XI of his confessions, Augustine addresses a seemingly naive question with disarming honesty, but theologically explosive: «What was God doing?, before he made heaven and earth?» (What did God do before he created the heavens and the earth?)[3]. The question presupposes a "before" creation, a time when God would exist in a kind of idleness, waiting for the right moment to act. Augustine's response is a conceptual revolution that dismantles this assumption at its root. He doesn't answer, evading the question with a joke («He prepared hell for those who investigated mysteries that were too lofty», as some suggested), but it demolishes it from the inside. There is no "before" creation, because time itself is a creature. God did not create the world In the time, ma with the weather: «You are the creator of all time», writes Doctor D'Ippona[4]. Before creation, simply, there was no time.
This intuition opens the way to understanding the nature of divine eternity. Eternity is not an infinitely extended time, an "always" that extends endlessly into the past and the future. This would still be a conception “temporal" of eternity. The eternity of God is the total absence of succession, the perfect and simultaneous fullness of an endless life. To use a classic image of theology, God is one Now standing, an "eternal present"[5]. In Him there is no past (memory) no future (wait), but only the pure and immutable act of His Being. «Your years are just one day», says Augustine, turning to God, «and your day is not every day, but today, because your today does not give way to tomorrow and it does not happen to yesterday. Your today is eternity"[6].
Catholic doctrine he formalized this concept by defining eternity as one of the divine attributes, one of the elements that makes up the "DNA" of God. God is immutable, absolutely perfect and simple. Temporal succession implies change, a passage from potency to act, which is inconceivable in Him who is "Pure Act", as taught by St. Thomas Aquinas[7]. Therefore, every attempt to apply our temporal categories to God, which are categories of us men who are in time, it is doomed to fail. He is the Lord of time precisely because he is not a prisoner of it.
«So what is time??». Once God's "extraterritoriality" with respect to time has been established, Agostino finds himself in front of the second, and perhaps more difficult, issue: define the nature of time itself. It is here that the famous paradox that has fascinated generations of thinkers emerges: «So what is the time?? If no one asks me, scio; I would like to explain to the inquirer, I don't know» (So what is time?? If no one asks me, I know; if I want to explain it to anyone who asks me, I do not know)[8] . This statement is not a statement of ignorance and agnosticism, but the starting point of a profound spiritual and phenomenological investigation. Augustine experiences the reality of time, lives it, the measurement, yet he is unable to enclose it in a concept. A process of dismantling the common beliefs of one's century then begins. Time is perhaps the movement of celestial bodies, of the sun, of the moon and stars? No, he replies, because even if the heavens stopped, a potter's vessel would continue to turn, and we would measure its movement over time. The weather, so, it is not the movement itself, but the measure of movement. But how can we measure something so elusive?
The past is no more, the future is not yet. It would seem that only the present exists. But the present is also problematic. If it had a duration, it would be divisible into a before and an after, therefore i would no longer be present. The present, to be such, it must be an instant without extension, a vanishing point between what is no longer and what is not yet. But how can something that has no duration constitute the reality of time?
The Augustinian solution is as ingenious as it is introspective. After looking for time in the outside world, in the skies and in objects, Agostino finds him inside, in the soul of man. Time has no ontological consistency outside of us; its reality is psychological. It's one distension of the mind, a "distension" or "dilation" of the soul. How it works? We see …
The human soul has three faculties which correspond to the three dimensions of time:
memory (memory): Through it, the soul makes present what is past. The past no longer exists in re, but it exists in the soul as a current memory.
The waiting (expectation): Through it, the soul anticipates and makes present what is not yet. The future doesn't exist yet, but it exists in the soul as a present expectation.
Attention (attentionO bruised): Through it, the soul focuses on the present moment, which is the point at which waiting turns into memory.
When we sing a song, Agostino explains with a beautiful example, our soul is "stretched out". The entire song is present in the wait before starting; as the words are spoken, they move from expectation to attention and finally are deposited in memory. The action takes place in the present, but it is made possible by this continuous «détente” of the soul between the future (which shortens) and the past (which lengthens)[9].The weather, so, it is the measure of this impression that things leave on the soul and that the soul itself produces.
Augustinian speculation, despite being of the highest philosophical and theological level, it is not a simple intellectual exercise. It offers all of us today a key to redeeming our experience of time and to living in a more authentic and spiritually fruitful way.. I therefore offer three reflections that arise from the Augustinian perspective.
Our daily life is dominated by Chronos, quantitative time, sequential, measured by the clock. It's the time for efficiency, of productivity, of anxiety, we said at the beginning. Augustine's reflection invites us to discover the Kairòs, qualitative time, the "favorable moment", the moment full of meaning in which eternity intersects our history. If God is an "eternal present", then every present of ours, every "now", it is the privileged place of meeting with Him. Augustinian teaching urges us to sanctify the present, to live it with attention, with full awareness. Instead of constantly escaping into the future of our projects or the past of our regrets, we are called to find God in the ordinariness of the present moment: in prayer, in work, in relationships, in the service. It is the invitation to experience the spirituality of the "present moment", dear to many masters of interior life.
There is a place and a time where the Kairos breaks into Chronos supremely: the Sacred Liturgy, and in particular the celebration of the Eucharist. During Mass, the time of the Church is connected to the eternal present of God. The sacrifice of Christ, happened once and for all in history (ephapax), it is not "repeated", but «re-presented», made sacramentally present on the altar[10] Past, present and future converge: let's remember the Passion, Death and Resurrection of Christ (past), we celebrate His real presence among us (here I'm) and we anticipate the glory of His return and the eternal banquet (future)[11]. The Liturgy is the great school that teaches us to live time in a new way, no longer as an inexorable escape towards death, but as a pilgrimage full of hope towards the fullness of life in the eternity of God.
In the end, the conception of time come distension of the mindoffers us profound consolation. The "détente" of the soul between memory and waiting, which for the man without faith can be a source of anguish (the weight of the past, the uncertainty of the future), for the Christian it becomes the space of faith, of hope and charity. Memory is not just a reminder of our failures, but it is above all memory of salvation, memory of the wonders that God has worked in the history of salvation and in our personal lives. It is the foundation of our faith. Waiting is not anxiety about an unknown future, but the certain hope of the definitive encounter with Christ, the blessed vision promised to the pure in heart. And attention to the present becomes the space of charity, of concrete love for God and neighbor, the only act that "remains" for eternity (1 Color 13,13).
Our life moves, as in a spiritual breath, between the grateful memory of the grace received and the confident expectation of the promised glory. In this way, the Augustinian man is not crushed by time, but he lives in it like a temporary tent, with the heart already projected towards the celestial homeland, where God will be "all in all" and where time will dissolve into the unique, eternal and beatifying today of God.
[1] M. Heidegger, Being and Time,1927. In particular, the sections dedicated to the existential analysis of temporality: First section § 27; Second Section. §§ 46-53; Second Section §§ 54-60 e §§ 65-69.
[2] A theme so important and felt by contemporary culture that these days the actor Alessandro Preziosi is taking a show about Augustine and time around Italy (WHO).
[3]Augustine of Hippo, The Confessions, XI, 12, 14. «What did God do before he created the heavens and the earth?»
[5] The classical definition of eternity is found in Boethius, On the consolation of philosophy, V, 6: «Eternity is the endless and complete possession of life» («Eternity is entire possession, simultaneous and perfect of an interminable life"). This definition has been adopted by all scholastic theology.
[10]Catechism of the Catholic Church, NN. 1085, 1362-1367.
[11] The term ephapax (one time) is a Greek word found in the New Testament, crucial to understanding the unique and definitive nature of Christ's sacrifice. The main source of this term is the Letter to the Hebrews. This New Testament writing builds a long and profound parallel between the Levitical priesthood of the Old Testament and the high priesthood of Christ. The most significant steps are the following:
Jews 7, 27: Talking about Christ as high priest, the author says that He «does not need every day, like the other high priests, to offer sacrifices first for one's own sins and then for those of the people: in fact he did it once and for all (ephapax), offering himself". Here it is emphasized that, unlike the Jewish priests who had to continually repeat the sacrifices, Christ's sacrifice is unique and definitive.
Jews 9, 12: «[Christ] entered once and for all (ephapax) in the sanctuary, not by the blood of goats and calves, but by virtue of his own blood, thus obtaining an eternal redemption ". The verse highlights that the effectiveness of Christ's sacrifice is not temporary, but eternal.
Jews 10, 10: “By that will we have been sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ, Once for all (ephapax)». Here our sanctification is directly connected to this unique and unrepeatable event.
The concept is also found in other passages of the New Testament, as in the Letter to the Romans (6, 10), where Sao Paulo, speaking of the death and resurrection of Christ, dice: «As for his death, he died to sin once and for all (ephapax)».
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THE LOST TIME AND THE ETERNAL PRESENT: AUGUSTINE FOR THE CONTEMPORARY MAN STARVED OF TIME
The past no longer exists; the future is not yet. It would seem, then, that only the present exists. But even the present is problematic. If it had duration, it would be divisible into a before and an after — and thus it would no longer be the present. The present, to be what it is, must be an instant without extension, a vanishing point between what is no more and what is not yet. But how can that which has no duration constitute the reality of time?
— Theologica —
Author: Gabriele Giordano M. Scardocci, o.p.
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Contemporary society lives in a schizophrenic relationship with time. On the one hand, time has become our most precious possession, an ever-scarce resource. Our lives are ruled by crowded schedules, relentless deadlines, and the oppressive sensation of “never having enough time.” Efficiency, speed, and the optimisation of every instant have become the new categorical imperatives of a humanity rushing breathlessly forward, often without even knowing its destination. Modern man is starved of time¹ — a hunger that increasingly devours the soul and the spirit. Indeed, this hunger for time visibly afflicts the most fragile among us, manifesting itself in the many forms of generalised anxiety, panic attacks, and other mental disorders.
Paradoxically, however, this time so longed for and so precisely measured constantly escapes us. It dissolves into a sequence of tasks and commitments that leave behind only a sense of emptiness and incompleteness. In the age of instant connection, we are increasingly disconnected from the present — projected towards a future that never seems to arrive, or chained to a past that cannot be changed. We are rich in moments, yet poor in lived time.
This experience of fragmentation and anguish was lucidly analysed almost a century ago by the philosopher Martin Heidegger². For the German thinker, human existence (To be there, the “being-there”) is intrinsically temporal. Man does not “possess” time — he is time. Our existence is a “being-toward-death,” a continual projection towards the future, fully aware of our finitude, limitation, and non-eternity.
Authentic time, for Heidegger, is not the homogeneous sequence of instants measured by the clock — what he calls vulgar time — but rather the openness to the three dimensions of existence: the future (as project), the past (as thrownness), and the present (as being-in-the-world). The anxiety that arises before death and our own limitations is therefore not a negative feeling to be avoided, but the very condition that can reveal to us the possibility of an authentic life, in which man takes possession of his own temporality and his finite destiny.
Profound as it is, this analysis nevertheless remains horizontal — confined within the immanence of an existence that ends with death. Its horizon is the nothingness. It is precisely here that Christian thought, and above all the genius of Saint Augustine of Hippo, opens a radically different perspective: a vertical and transcendent one. Augustine does not merely describe the experience of time; he interrogates it until it becomes a path by which he interrogates God Himself. And in this questioning he discovers that the solution to the enigma of time is not to be found within time itself, but beyond it — in the Eternity that grounds and redeems it.
In Book XI of his Confessions, Augustine confronts with disarming honesty a question that seems naïve yet is theologically explosive: «What was God doing?, before he made heaven and earth?» — “What was God doing before He created heaven and earth?”³. The question presupposes a before creation, a time in which God might have existed in a sort of divine idleness, waiting for the right moment to act. Augustine’s response is a conceptual revolution that dismantles this assumption at its very root. He does not evade the question with the witty remark attributed to some (“He was preparing hell for those who pry into mysteries too high for them”), but rather refutes it from within. There was no “before” creation, for time itself is a creature. God did not create the world in time but with time: “Thou art the maker of all times,” writes the Doctor of Hippo. Before creation, there simply was no time⁴.
This intuition opens the way to the understanding of the divine eternity. Eternity is not an infinitely extended duration — a “forever” stretching endlessly backward and forward. Such would still be a temporal notion of eternity. God’s eternity is the total absence of succession, the perfect and simultaneous fullness of life without end. To use a classical image of theology, God is a Nunc stans — an “eternal now”⁵. In Him there is neither past (memory) nor future (expectation), but only the pure and immutable act of His Being. “Thy years are one day,” says Augustine to God, “and Thy day is not every day, but today; for Thy today yields not to tomorrow, nor does it follow yesterday. Thy today is eternity”⁶.
Catholic doctrine has formalised this insight by defining eternity as one of the divine attributes — one of the essential elements that compose the very ‘DNA’ of God. God is immutable, absolutely perfect, and simple. Temporal succession implies change, a passage from potentiality to act, which is inconceivable in Him who is Pure Act, as taught by Saint Thomas Aquinas⁷.
Therefore, every attempt to apply our human temporal categories to God — categories that belong to us precisely because we are within time — is bound to fail. He is the Lord of time precisely because He is not its prisoner.
“What, then, is time?” Once Augustine has established God’s extraterritoriality in regard to time, he faces a second and perhaps even more arduous question: to define the nature of time itself. Here emerges the celebrated paradox that has fascinated generations of thinkers: «So what is the time?? If no one asks me, scio; I would like to explain to the inquirer, I don't know». — “What, then, is time? If no one asks me, I know; if I wish to explain it to one who asks, I do not know”⁸. This statement is not a confession of ignorance or agnosticism, but the point of departure for a profound spiritual and phenomenological inquiry.
Augustine experiences the reality of time — he lives it, he measures it — and yet he cannot enclose it within a concept. Thus begins a process of dismantling the common assumptions of his age. Is time perhaps the movement of the heavenly bodies, of the sun, the moon, and the stars? No, he answers, for even if the heavens were to stand still, the potter’s wheel would continue to turn, and we would still measure its motion in time. Time, therefore, is not movement itself but the measure of movement. Yet how can we measure something so elusive?
The past no longer exists; the future is not yet. It would seem, then, that only the present exists. But even the present is problematic. If it had duration, it would be divisible into a before and an after — and thus it would no longer be the present. The present, to be what it is, must be an instant without extension, a vanishing point between what is no more and what is not yet. But how can that which has no duration constitute the reality of time?
Augustine’s solution is as ingenious as it is introspective. After seeking time in the external world — in the heavens and in material things — he finds it within, in the depths of the human soul. Time has no ontological substance outside ourselves; its reality is psychological. It is a distension of the mind, a “stretching” or “distension” of the soul. The human soul possesses three faculties corresponding to the three dimensions of time: memory (memory), by which the soul makes the past present; expectation (expectation), by which the soul anticipates and makes present what is not yet; and attention (attentionor bruised), by which the soul focuses on the present instant, the point at which expectation is transformed into memory.
When we sing a hymn, Augustine explains in a beautiful example, our soul is “stretched.” The entire song is present in expectation before it begins; as the words are sung, they pass from expectation to attention, and finally they rest in memory. The action unfolds in the present, yet it is made possible by this continuous “stretching” of the soul between the future (which shortens) and the past (which lengthens). Time, therefore, is the measure of this impression that things leave upon the soul — and that the soul itself impresses upon them⁹.
Although Augustine’s speculation reaches the highest levels of philosophical and theological depth, it is far from being a mere intellectual exercise. It offers, rather, to each of us today a key by which to redeem our own experience of time and to live in a way that is more authentic and spiritually fruitful. Three reflections arise, therefore, from the Augustinian perspective.
Our daily life is dominated by Chronos — quantitative time, sequential, measured by the clock. It is the time of efficiency, productivity, and anxiety, as we noted at the beginning. Augustine’s reflection invites us to rediscover Kairos — qualitative time, the “favourable moment,” the instant filled with meaning in which eternity intersects our history. If God is an “eternal present,” then every present moment, every now, becomes the privileged place of encounter with Him. Augustine’s teaching urges us to sanctify the present, to live it with attentio, with full awareness. Instead of constantly fleeing into the future of our projects or the past of our regrets, we are called to find God in the ordinariness of the present moment: in prayer, in work, in relationships, in service. It is the invitation to live the spirituality of the “present moment,” so dear to many masters of the interior life.
There is a place and a time where Kairos breaks into Chronos in its most supreme form: the Sacred Liturgy, and in particular the celebration of the Eucharist. During the Holy Mass, the time of the Church is joined to the eternal present of God. The Sacrifice of Christ — accomplished once for all in history (ephapax)¹¹ — is not “repeated” but “re-presented,” made sacramentally present upon the altar. Past, present, and future converge: we recall the Passion, Death, and Resurrection of Christ (past); we celebrate His real presence in our midst (present); and we anticipate the glory of His return and the eternal banquet (future)¹⁰. The Liturgy is the great school that teaches us to live time in a new way — no longer as a relentless flight towards death, but as a hopeful pilgrimage towards the fullness of life in God’s eternity.
Finally, the conception of time as distentio animi offers profound consolation. The “stretching” of the soul between memory and expectation — which for the man without faith may be a source of anguish (the weight of the past, the uncertainty of the future) — becomes for the Christian the very space of faith, hope, and charity. Memory is not merely the recollection of our failures; it is above all memoria salutis — the remembrance of the wonders that God has wrought in the history of salvation and in our personal lives. It is the foundation of our faith. Expectation is not the anxiety of an unknown future, but the sure hope of the definitive encounter with Christ, the beatific vision promised to the pure of heart. And attention to the present becomes the space of charity — of concrete love of God and neighbour — the one act that “abides” for eternity (1 Color 13:13).
Our life thus moves, as in a spiritual breath, between the grateful remembrance of grace received and the confident expectation of the glory promised. In this way, the Augustinian man is not crushed by time but dwells within it as within a provisional tent, his heart already turned towards the heavenly homeland where God shall be “all in all” — and where time itself shall dissolve into the single, eternal, and beatifying today of God.
M. Heidegger, Being and time(Being and Time), 1927, especially the sections devoted to the existential analysis of temporality: First Division § 27; Second Division §§ 46-53; Second Division §§ 54-60 and §§ 65-69.
This theme is so present in contemporary culture that it is even the subject of recent Italian stage performances on Augustine and time.
Augustine of Hippo, Confessiones, XI, 12, 14: «What was God doing?, before he made heaven and earth?»
Ibid., XI, 13, 15.
Boethius, On the consolation of philosophy, V, 6: «Eternity is the endless and complete possession of life».
Confessiones, XI, 13, 16.
Thomas Aquinas, QUESTION, I, q. 9 (“On the Immutability of God”) and q. 10 (“On the Eternity of God”).
Confessiones, XI, 14, 17.
Confessiones, XI, 28, 38.
Catechism of the Catholic Church, NN. 1085, 1362-1367.
On the term ephapax (one time), see Hebrews 7:27; 9:12; 10:10; Romans 6:10 — indicating the definitive and unrepeatable character of Christ’s sacrifice, “once for all.”
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LOST TIME AND THE ETERNAL PRESENT: SAINT AUGUSTINE FOR THE CONTEMPORARY MAN HUNGRY FOR TIME
The past is no longer, the future is not yet. It would seem that only the present exists. But even the present is problematic. If it had duration, It would be divisible into a before and an after, and would cease to be present. The present, to be, It must be an instant without extension, a vanishing point between what is no longer and what is not yet. But how can something without duration constitute the reality of time??
— Theologica —
Author: Gabriele Giordano M. Scardocci, o.p.
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contemporary society lives a schizophrenic relationship with time. On the one hand, This has become the most precious asset, a perpetually scarce resource. Our lives are marked by saturated agendas, Pressing deadlines and the oppressive feeling of “never having time”. The efficiency, The speed and optimization of each moment have become the new categorical imperatives of a humanity that runs busily., many times without knowing your goal. Modern man is hungry for time², a hunger that increasingly devours the soul and spirit. In fact, This hunger for time visibly hits the most fragile, manifesting itself in multiple forms of generalized anxiety, panic attacks and other mental disorders.
Paradoxically, however, that time so longed for and so meticulously measured escapes us. It dissolves into a sequence of commitments that leave behind a feeling of emptiness and incompleteness.. In the age of instant connection, we are increasingly disconnected from the present: projected towards a future that never arrives or anchored in a past that cannot be changed. We are rich in moments, but poor in lived time.
This experience of fragmentation and anguish was lucidly analyzed almost a century ago by the philosopher Martin Heidegger¹. For the German thinker, human existence (To be there, the "being-there") It is inherently temporary.. Man does not "own" time: he is time. Our existence is a “being-for-death”, a continuous projection towards the future, fully aware of our finitude, limitation and not eternity.
authentic time, for Heidegger, It is not the homogeneous sequence of moments measured by the clock - what he calls "vulgar" time -, but the openness to the three dimensions of existence: the future (as project), the past (like being thrown) and the present (how to be-in-the-world). Anguish in the face of death and one's own limitations is not, therefore, a negative feeling to escape from, but the condition that can reveal to us the possibility of an authentic life, in which man appropriates his own temporality and his finite destiny.
No matter how deep, this reflection remains, however, in the horizontal plane, confined in the immanence of an existence that ends with death. Your horizon is nothing. It is precisely here where Christian thought, and especially the genius of Saint Augustine of Hippo, opens a radically different perspective: vertical and transcendent. Augustine does not limit himself to describing the experience of time, but interrogates it until it becomes a path to interrogate God himself. And in this search he discovers that the solution to the enigma of time is not found in time itself., but outside of it: in the Eternity that grounds it and redeems it.
In Book XI of his Confessions, Augustine addresses a question that seems naive with disarming sincerity., but it is theologically explosive: «What was God doing?, before he made heaven and earth?» — «What did God do before creating heaven and earth?»³. The question presupposes a “before” of creation, a time when God would have existed in a kind of divine leisure, waiting for the right moment to act. Augustine's response is a conceptual revolution that dismantles that assumption at its roots.. He does not evade the question with the ingenious response attributed to some ("He prepared hell for those who investigate mysteries that are too high"), but refutes it from within. There is no “before” of creation, because time itself is a creature. God did not create the world in the time, sino with the time: «You are the architect of all time», writes the Doctor of Hippo. Before creation, simply, there was no time⁴.
This intuition opens the way towards understanding divine eternity. Eternity is not an infinitely extended duration—an “ever” that stretches endlessly into the past and the future—. Such would still be a temporal conception of eternity.. God's eternity is the total absence of succession, the perfect and simultaneous plenitude of an endless life. To use a classic image of theology, God is a Now standing, an “eternal present”⁵. In Him there is no past (memory) no future (expectation), but only the pure and immutable act of his Being.
"Your years are a single day", Augustine says to God, «and your day is not every day, but today; because your today does not give way to tomorrow nor does it follow yesterday. Your today is eternity»⁶. Catholic doctrine has formalized this intuition by defining eternity as one of the divine attributes., one of the elements that make up the “DNA” of God. God is immutable, absolutely perfect and simple. Temporal succession implies change, a step from power to action, which is inconceivable in Him who is Pure Act, as Saint Thomas Aquinas teaches⁷.
So, every attempt to apply to God our temporal categories—categories proper to us, that we are in time — it is destined to fail. He is the Lord of time precisely because he is not its prisoner..
"What is, well, the time?» Once the extraterritoriality of God with respect to time is established, Agustín faces the second, and perhaps more arduous, issue: define the nature of time itself. Here arises the famous paradox that has fascinated generations of thinkers: «So what is the time?? If no one asks me, scio; I would like to explain to the inquirer, I don't know" - "What is, well, the time? If no one asks me, I know; If I want to explain it to the person who asks me, I don't know»⁸. This statement is not a confession of ignorance or agnosticism, but the starting point of a deep spiritual and phenomenological inquiry.
Augustine experiences the reality of time: lives it, measures it, and yet he fails to enclose it in a concept. Thus begins a process of dismantling the common convictions of his century. Is time perhaps the movement of celestial bodies, of the sun, the moon and the stars? No, respond, because even if the heavens stopped, the potter's wheel would keep turning, and we would measure its movement in time. time, therefore, it is not the movement itself, but the measure of movement. But how to measure something so elusive?
The past is no longer, the future is not yet. It would seem that only the present exists. But even the present is problematic. If it had duration, It would be divisible into a before and an after, and would cease to be present. The present, to be, It must be an instant without extension, a vanishing point between what is no longer and what is not yet. But how can something without duration constitute the reality of time??
The Augustinian solution It's as cool as it is introspective.. After searching for time in the outside world, in the skies and in the objects, Agustín finds it inside, in the soul of man. Time has no ontological consistency outside of us.; its reality is psychological. It is a distension of the mind, a "distension" or "dilation" of the soul. The human soul has three faculties that correspond to the three dimensions of time: memory (memory), through which the soul makes the past present; the expectation (expectation), by which the soul anticipates and makes present what is not yet; and attention (attention O bruised), by which the soul concentrates on the present moment, the point at which expectation transforms into memory.
When we sing a hymn, Agustín explains with a beautiful example, our soul is "extended". All the singing is present in the expectation before beginning; as the words are spoken, go from expectation to attention, and finally they are deposited in memory. The action takes place in the present, but it is possible thanks to this continuous "distension" of the soul between the future (that is shortened) and the past (that lengthens). time, therefore, It is the measure of this impression that things leave on the soul and that the soul itself produces⁹.
Although Augustinian speculation reaches the highest philosophical and theological level, It is far from being a mere intellectual exercise. Offers, rather, to each of us a key to redeem our own experience of time and live in a more authentic and spiritually fruitful way. From the Augustinian perspective arise, well, three reflections.
Our daily life is dominated by Chronos: quantitative time, sequential, measured by clock. It is the time of efficiency, productivity and anxiety, as we said at the beginning. Augustinian reflection invites us to discover the Cairo: qualitative time, the "opportune moment", the moment loaded with meaning in which eternity intersects with our history. If God is an "eternal present", then every present, every "now", becomes the privileged place of encounter with Him. Augustine's teaching exhorts us to sanctify the present, to live it with attention, with full awareness. Instead of constantly fleeing towards the future of our projects or towards the past of our regrets, We are called to find God in the everyday life of the present moment.: in prayer, at work, in relationships, in the service. It is the invitation to live the spirituality of the "present moment", so loved by many teachers of inner life.
There is a place and a time in which the Cairobreaks into the Chronos supremely: the Sacred Liturgy, and in particular the celebration of the Eucharist. During the Holy Mass, the time of the Church is united to the eternal present of God. The Sacrifice of Christ, fulfilled once and for all in history (ephapax)¹¹, it is not "repeated", but it is "re-presented", becoming sacramentally present at the altar. Past, present and future converge: we remember the Passion, Death and Resurrection of Christ (past); we celebrate his real presence in our midst (here I'm); and we anticipate the glory of his return and the eternal banquet (future)¹⁰. The Liturgy is the great school that teaches us to live time in a new way: no longer as an inexorable flight towards death, but as a hopeful pilgrimage towards the fullness of life in the eternity of God.
Finally, the conception of time as distension of the mindoffers deep consolation. The "distension" of the soul between memory and expectation - which for the man without faith can be a source of anguish (the weight of the past, the uncertainty of the future)— becomes for the Christian the very space of faith, hope and charity. Memory is not just the memory of our failures, but above all the memory of salvation: the memory of the wonders that God has worked in the history of salvation and in our personal lives. It is the foundation of our faith. Expectation is not anxiety about an uncertain future, but the sure hope of the definitive encounter with Christ, the beatific vision promised to the pure in heart. And attention to the present becomes the space of charity, of concrete love for God and neighbor, the only act that "remains" for eternity (1 Color 13,13).
Our life moves like this, like a spiritual breath, between the grateful memory of the grace received and the confident expectation of the promised glory. Thus, the Augustinian man is not crushed by time, but inhabits it like a temporary tent, with the heart already oriented towards the heavenly homeland, where God will be "all in all" and where time will dissolve into the one, eternal and beatifying today of God.
M. Heidegger, Being and time, 1927, especially the sections dedicated to the existential analysis of temporality: First section § 27; Second section §§ 46-53; Second section §§ 54-60 y §§ 65-69.
A topic so present in contemporary culture that it has even been the subject of theatrical performances in Italy about Augustine and time..
Saint Augustine of Hippo, Confessions, XI, 12, 14: "What was God doing?", before he made heaven and earth?»
Ibid., XI, 13, 15.
Boethius, On the consolation of philosophy, V, 6: "Eternity is the interminable possession of life all at once and perfect".
Confessions, XI, 13, 16.
Saint Thomas Aquinas, QUESTION, I, q. 9 («On the immutability of God») and what. 10 («On the eternity of God»).
Confessions, XI, 14, 17.
Confessions, XI, 28, 38.
Catechism of the Catholic Church, NN. 1085, 1362-1367.
About the term ephapax(one time), see Hebrews 7,27; 9,12; 10,10; Romans 6,10: indicates the unique and definitive character of Christ's sacrifice, "once for all".
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